04/29/2025
"Winners never quit, and quitters never win." If you are a perfectionist who grew up hearing this, I would just like to invite you to lay this phrase to rest. Sometimes quitting is the win. Sometimes we win because we quit the thing that wasn't meant for us and free up space for a better fit. This b.s. trope, paired with the sunk cost fallacy, keeps far too many brilliant, talented, and capable people from living a life they love. You deserve more than gritting your teeth and getting through it, when "it" isn't what you want.