
08/06/2025
When Sara was in middle school, she found a letter from a research hospital with a heartbreaking prognosis: Because of the heart defect she was born with – transposition of the great arteries – she probably wouldn’t live to 40.
Sara quickly shoved it back in the drawer and went up to her room. She never told anyone. The secret haunted her, but she continued living. She graduated high school, earned a college degree and launched a career, got married, and had a son, Max.
As her 40th birthday neared, her fear intensified. Was her time almost up?
She marked the birthday with a sushi dinner with her husband, Matt, and Max. After she was haunted by a new thought: Things are going to start going downhill from here.
A couple of months later, Sara was on a walk with a friend when she lost all feeling on the left side of her body. She couldn't speak. Sara knew she was having a stroke. Her friend dialed 911.
During open-heart surgery as a baby, she received a baffle, a surgically created structure within the heart that redirects blood flow. The baffle was leaking, allowing a blood clot to pass through and block an artery that supplies blood to the brain. Sara received an implanted device to close the baffle leak and was discharged within a few days. The stroke left no lasting physical issues.
Sara didn't just survive her long-expected brush with mortality. She came away from it thriving, embracing an entirely new outlook. She started seeing a therapist, which has helped her feel calmer and more productive. She wrote a children’s book, found a passion for light jogging, joined a weekly dance class and co-founded a company that makes disposable medical bras that support patient privacy and enhance the patient experience.
"Life has been full of many experiences that I never thought possible," Sara said. "The pride I have felt watching Max live such a beautifully unencumbered childhood has satisfied all of my curiosity of what feeling invincible looks like. Now I live in gratitude instead of fear."