04/16/2026
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As Cystinosis adults and chronic illness adults, we tend to have more doctorâs appointments than the average bear.
Medical appointments donât just take a physical tollâthey can take an emotional and mental one, too. The amount of time we have to take out of our days to go to these appointments can feel like having an extra job with extra pressure. It can be really overwhelming.
This weekâs video focuses on emotional self-regulation and planning aheadâand how small shifts can make medical experiences feel more manageable.
Emily Parks shares important reminders like:
Itâs really human for stress to build ahead of time, and you donât have to carry all of it before the appointment even begins.
Itâs easy to spend hours (or days) anticipating how difficult something will be. But that âpreemptive sufferingâ can make the experience feel longer and heavier than it actually is.
Instead, try narrowing your focus:
Plan your timing so youâre not rushing.
Think about the next hour or twoânot the entire day. Stay in the moment.
Give yourself space to pause and reevaluate along the way.
Emily Parks also shares a helpful metaphor:
Approach your day like youâre driving a big rigâkeep your eyes a little further down the road, not just right in front of you.
If your appointment is at 9:30, remind yourself:
10:00 is coming. It will pass.
And just as importantâ
You donât have to be totally okay to get through it.
You just need a space where itâs safe to not be okay.
That alone can make it easier to move forward.
And when itâs over, plan something to look forward to:
A coffee and bagel with your favorite cream cheese.
Listening to some of your favorite music.
Find what works for you.
A small reward that reminds youâyou made it through.
âśď¸ Watch this weekâs video to learn more about navigating medical stress with intention and care.
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