01/30/2026
In this month’s blog- our director, Dr. Beth Pearson, explores what wrestling a dirty dog revealed about values-based living– and why asking “Does this matter?” beats “Does this feel good?” for making goals stick.
Here’s an Excerpt:
“Moments ago I was on my hands and knees scrubbing my dog's underside because she'd rolled in something disgusting in our yard... A sound escaped my mouth somewhere between a laugh and a cry, and I had the thought: 'So much of what I'm doing right now—I just don't enjoy.'
After I finished getting Maggie cleaned up, I examined that thought. Is it really true that a lot of my time is spent doing things I don't enjoy?
The answer is yes. So, will I stop doing those things? For the most part—no."
Read more here: https://www.arborpsychology.org/when-doing-what-matters-means-doing-whats-hard/