07/23/2021
And here is my other “Help someone”!
This is my friend Garie Sim, and his daughter Shin Yuurei! They live in Singapore.
Garie and his family run a little business of teaching children the arts, clay, singing, dancing, and performance arts. And tools to use for happiness and fun.
They play games together, and many children are from other countries.
All passing through Singapore.
Here is my letter of why I am doing this and how it came about. This is long but I want you to get a picture of what is happening over there.
“My letter about Shin Yuurei and why I am doing this
I am working on way to help others. Others dedicated to and in the ARTS.
I don't have a lot of money, but I still want to help. I thought you might like to help me, help. It does not matter how much either. I am asking you to help me. Everything counts. Even when we give a dollar at a time, and if lots of us do it, it adds up.
My First Ever Charity will be Shin Yuurei, she is the daughter of a dear friend, Garie Sim.
They live in Singapore. Garie and I have known each other since 1997. We met at a trade show in Chicago. And then in a class. We have been friends ever since. He is a good man. And very good Dad! And a family man, that right there is why we have remained friends since.
Shin is only 38 years old. She has many medical issues right now and has used all of her allotted care for the year. It is only May. (At the time I wrote this), seems like I have been working on this forever.
She has been a part of the whole teaching team at the Sim's household since 2002.
Garie has always loved to teach and share with children. He has passed this down to others, including his family. Of course I love that. Giving kids tools and a way survive the world they were born in has a place in my heart.
This is a very good thing.
The pandemic has not been very kind to the Sim's little business of teaching, sharing, and crafting, at all. They have been in lock down as long (longer) as we have and they can not even teach in their home, it is not allowed at all. They have already downsized every thing they can.
When I heard of the trouble they were in, it was too much for me.
Garie asked me for help, I know this was not easy for him.
He waited a long time as well. But he had used up all of his options.
He has always been able to deal with every thing that has come his way.
This whole family works together to support children and introduce them to a small bit of art in the way that they know how. And to support themselves.
I want to support people that work with children. Children do not ask for racism, crazy making adults, or pandemics and yet they seem to be the ones that clean up our messes and fix things when we don't deal with them. They should be given the tools and the art therapy to help them get through the messes we leave them.
My art projects in my early life helped me get over so many things. They still do. I believe that art is therapy, these are only my opinions but I believe in them deep down in my soul.
And…Together we can change the world.
❤️
Marie”
It took a lot for this Dad to come to me, he is at the end.
Here is Garie’s letter for me that he wrote explaining it all. He is being completely transparent with all of us.
Shin Yuurei
My daughter is and has always been our baby in our hearts. No matter how old, she is courteous, cute, sweet and an independent little girl. As parents we supported her all the way through her education and brought her up well, to be a helpful and filial (dutiful and helpful) woman, to the current age of 38, she is very talented and creative, with her explorations into music, clay and art. She is a bubbly little girl helping and supporting the family, after her education at the age of 19.
She’s not a demanding person, money to her is not everything, she would give us her savings to contribute to the whole family in time of needs, life is like a roller coaster eg. when we were facing SARS and H1N1.
Shin Yuurei has many talents singing, dancing, piano, clay and art, also multiple language skills.
Singing for corporate events, charity and teaching children everything she has learned like dancing, piano, clay and art lessons. She is a dedicated teacher, teaching children and adults since 2002.
Together with the family, we formed Play Creation. Our little family business.
Shin loves children and is always happy teaching them for about 20 years now. Until in 2018, when she was diagnosed with Hypothyroidism, her condition worsened in 2019 due to stress and harassment from relatives and their friends who are jealous of her independent, ability, talent and skill. The harassment on the internet caused her to seek doctors and medications, she was unable to help the family to bring in the income.
In December of 2019, the whole World was facing the coronavirus pandemic.
Singapore was infected by the Covid virus on 23 Jan 2020, and Circuit Breaker (this was what the plan was called to lockdown my city) was put in place, restricting movement, activity and social gathering, we have to stop all art and clay workshops for children and adults, our online businesses also suffered. The family had to tighten the belt and we continued to support, as much as we can my daughter, Shin.
Shin’s condition turned to the worst, she could not breath properly, hands and legs were swollen, Shin was admitted to Singapore Changi General Hospital on 1 June 2020, suffering from a Hyperthyroid storm.
In the hospital, she suffered three cardiac arrests. Thanks to the doctors and specialists in the hospital, they managed to save her life. Her lungs were filled with water and her heart had over worked. We are glad and very happy to have our precious girl back.
Her hospital bills were piling up after she was discharged from the hospital. From 1 June 2020 till now, every month, Doctor’s appointments and medications, the hospital bills amounted to $26,881.44, she needs medication for life, the bills currently exceeded $33,000. She had depleted all her medisave funds. Hospital bills eventually was reduced to balance of $9830.10 plus the current medications and appointments of $6000 amounted to $15,830.10.
Medisave is the program for my country it is the amount you are allowed to spend for the year.
It does not really include people with diseases like this.
It is mostly for healthy people. Any medical extremes is up to the person to pay off. Hard to do when you can not work.
My daughter currently has no income, no CPF savings (CPF, The Central Provident Fund Board, usually known as either CPF Board or simply the Central Provident Fund is a compulsory comprehensive savings and pension plan for working Singaporeans and permanent residents) or enough Medisave to take care of her illness. As for the other family medical expenses, my wife suffers from asthma and me under hypertension, my high blood pressure condition, currently using my medisave. And these programs that are in place are not transferable to family or any one.
My small monthly income is just sufficient to make ends meet but, unable to payoff the balance hospital medical bills for Shin. Under this circumstance, the only alternative is to seek funding from members of the public to help my daughter, with her medical expenses.
From Marie; anyone would be affected with high Blood pressure. (ask me how I know)
If you would like to assist my daughter with her financial burden, any donation would be so greatly appreciated. All the funds raised will go directly to Shin Yuurei to take care of her medical expenses.
Thank You!
Garie’s websites
https://www.facebook.com/playcreation.sg/photos/574751995953170
https://www.facebook.com/playcreation.sg/photos/472740236154347
http://gariesim.blogspot.com/2011/
http://gariesim.blogspot.com/2008_05_01_archive.html
Garie’s email
Gariesim@gmail.com
You can donate directly to Garie and he will put in to Shin’s account. He doesn’t know if he will make it month to month. He has used up all the options he could think of.
Look through all of these pictures and make your decision.
Thank you so much for anything you can do. Anything…. really! It adds up.
A dollar would be great. Many donating one dollar could change his and his family’s life.
And at the end of the pictures you can find out about the private group, I started to share my donations to this and where you can get something for your donation.
Join Garie’s web site and Facebook ages he has some great posts about art all over the world.
❤️ and
Thank you,
Marie
My page associated with this Charity is Craftysellers, it will be my destash page after this. The group is located there, you have to ask to join.
But right now it is dedicated to the Sim’s family.
I am adding pieces and stuff daily.
Here is my page.
https://www.facebook.com/CraftySellers
Here is the direct link to the group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/339530153664117
😘🤗