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03/31/2026

People are always upset when I say this, but it needs to be said:
Hospitals create MORE emergencies during birth than they prevent.

It’s not because doctors are bad… it’s because the system turns a biological process into an over medicalized event the MOMENT you walk through that door. The policies and rules are focused on protecting THEM legally, not necessarily giving the most evidence based care to you.

Let’s first look at continuous electronic fetal monitoring (the belts they strap on you and are constantly adjusting).

Here’s the part studies show but nobody wants to hear:

👉 Continuous fetal monitoring increases interventions, NOT safety.
👉 It does NOT reduce cerebral palsy rates.
👉 It does NOT reduce stillbirth.
👉 It does NOT improve neonatal outcomes.

But it does increase:
• C-section rates
• Forceps/vacuum use
• Fetal distress diagnoses
• Unnecessary inductions
• Mom getting stuck in bed leading to a cascade of interventions

And this isn’t some crunchy opinion.
This is straight out of literal *decades* of data.

Studies show continuous monitoring has a significantly higher C-section rate with no decrease in adverse neonatal outcomes.

Meaning?
We’re creating emergencies by looking for emergencies that aren’t there.

Once you’re strapped to the bed:
• you can’t easily move
• contractions hurt more
• labor stalls
• Pitocin gets started
• baby doesn’t like Pitocin
• monitors look “concerning”
• suddenly you’re “not progressing”
• and then… SURPRISE! “Emergency” C-section.

Tell me how that’s safer??

Birth works better when:
• you’re upright
• you’re not bound to machines
• you’re not starved or dehydrated
• you can change positions freely
• you’re not on a clock
• your hormones aren’t suppressed by fear

But none of that fits well inside of hospital protocols.

So we pretend the medical emergency started in your body when it actually started from cascading interventions. 🫠

You want the truth?
Most “birth emergencies” in hospitals are iatrogenic… meaning created BY the system.

And every mom who’s lived both sides (hospital vs home birth) knows exactly what I mean. 🫶🏼

03/20/2026

On December 12, 1952, in the delivery room of a New York hospital, a baby was born blue, limp, and silent. The room froze. For a terrifying moment, it looked as though the medical team might simply accept the outcome.

Then a calm, steady voice cut through the panic.

“Let’s score the baby.”

That voice belonged to Dr. Virginia Apgar. In that single sentence, she did more than save one infant—she gave the world a tool that would save millions.

Virginia Apgar was born in 1909 in Westfield, New Jersey, the youngest of three children. Her father died when she was young, leaving her mother to raise the family alone. Money was tight, but education was non-negotiable. Virginia excelled in school, graduated from Mount Holyoke College in 1929 with a degree in zoology, chemistry, and physiology, and entered Columbia University’s College of Physicians and Surgeons—the same year the stock market crashed and the Great Depression began.

She graduated fourth in her class in 1933 and was determined to become a surgeon. But in the 1930s and 1940s, surgical residencies were almost exclusively reserved for men. One professor told her plainly: no hospital would hire a female surgeon. Many would have walked away. Virginia pivoted. She chose anesthesiology—a new field, less prestigious at the time, and one where women were slightly less unwelcome.

She trained at Columbia-Presbyterian Medical Center, became the director of the division of anesthesia in 1938, and turned it into one of the country’s strongest programs. She mastered the science of putting patients to sleep and waking them safely. She also saw something no one else was paying attention to: newborns.

In the maternity ward, she watched too many babies die in the first minutes or hours of life. Doctors had no standardized way to assess whether a newborn was in distress. Breathing, heart rate, color, reflexes, muscle tone—each physician judged these differently, often subjectively. There was no shared language, no protocol, no urgency tied to measurable signs. Babies who might have been saved were sometimes left to deteriorate because no one had a clear signal to act.

Virginia decided to fix it.

In 1952 she sat down with a pen and paper and created a simple, five-point scoring system. One point each for:

- Heart rate (absent, slow, over 100)
- Respiration (absent, slow/irregular, good cry)
- Muscle tone (flaccid, some flexion, active movement)
- Reflex irritability (no response, grimace, cry/pull away)
- Color (blue/pale, body pink/extremities blue, completely pink)

A score of 0–2 meant immediate intervention. 3–7 meant monitoring and possible support. 8–10 meant the baby was vigorous and healthy. The test took sixty seconds to perform, at one minute after birth (and later also at five minutes).

She called it simply the Apgar Score.

The medical community did not resist. They adopted it. Within a decade it was standard in nearly every hospital in the United States. Because doctors finally had a universal, objective language to assess newborns, they knew exactly when—and how urgently—to intervene. Resuscitation rates rose. Neonatal mortality dropped significantly. Studies later estimated that standardized neonatal assessment contributed to declines of 40–50 percent in high-risk infant mortality in many regions.

Virginia did not stop there. In 1959 she earned a Master of Public Health from Johns Hopkins and joined the March of Dimes, where she became vice president for medical affairs. She spent the rest of her career advocating for maternal and child health, researching birth defects, and pushing for prevention and early intervention. She lectured worldwide, wrote extensively, and mentored generations of physicians.

When people asked how she thrived in a field that did not want women, she would offer a small, knowing smile. “Women are like tea bags,” she said. “You never know how strong they are until they’re in hot water.”

Virginia Apgar died on August 7, 1974, at age 65, from liver cancer. She never married, never had children of her own. But every two seconds, somewhere in the world, a newborn takes its first breath, and a doctor or midwife silently calculates a score.

That number is her monument.

It is quiet, invisible, essential. It does not bear her name in bronze or marble. It simply works—saving lives one minute at a time.

She did not invent breathing. She invented the certainty that a baby who needed help would receive it. She did not ask for recognition. She asked for a system that noticed suffering and acted.

Because she refused to accept guesswork where lives were at stake, millions of children have grown up who otherwise might not have.

Virginia Apgar proved that one person with a pen, a clear eye, and the refusal to accept “that’s just how it is” can rewrite the future.

Most people will never know the woman behind the score they receive at birth. But every life she helped save is living proof that you do not need fame to be a hero. You just need to leave the world better than you found it.

02/25/2026
02/09/2026

Many of us are still carrying phrases from childhood that shaped how we see ourselves and the world.

As gentle parents, we now have the opportunity to choose different ways to respond.

Even in the middle of a triggering moment, we can learn to pause and respond in a way that protects our children’s sense of safety.

Because kids are meant to make mistakes and messes, after all, that’s how they learn! 😊

But breaking cycles doesn’t mean we never get frustrated.

It means that when we do feel frustrated, we can still choose to respond intentionally, even in messy moments. ❤️

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shared this image for our World Breastfeeding Week blog post.

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09/09/2025

You hold them close,
feel the warmth of their skin,
and know—without words—
this is what forever feels like.

Image and words by

Lindsey is also a BBY Certified Birth Photographer and a BBY Doula Course instructor!

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