Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC

Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC Autism/ADHD Expert & Author: Diagnoses, Therapy, Couples’ Counseling, Coaching, and Consultations Besides English, she is fluent in Hindi, Urdu, and Konkani.

Eva Mendes is a skilled and successful couple’s counselor working with couples where one or both partners have Asperger Syndrome, and are on the Autism Spectrum (diagnosed or undiagnosed). She also specializes in ADHD and those with related neurological profiles. Since 2009, she has worked almost exclusively with highly accomplished and gifted neurodiverse adults. Originally from Mumbai, India, Eva has expertise in treating individuals and couples from a wide variety of cultural and ethnic backgrounds. Eva offers groundbreaking, research-based, practical solutions to life's challenges tailored to each client’s needs, neurology and personality. Clients who work with Eva report feeling motivated, and empowered to change their lives with strategies and resources that actually work. Eva provides a combination of proven therapies such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy, Positive Psychology and Mindfulness Practices. She leverages both the latest research, and her professional experience to help people overcome obstacles and create lasting and happy relationships. An expert on the topic of Asperger Syndrome and social-communication challenges, Eva has spoken at conferences and colleges. She has written several papers on this subject and a thesis, Bridging Parallel Play in AS Marriageeva mendes asperger marriage. Eva leads the popular Spouse and Partners’ and the Couple’s Support Groups as well as the Women's Support Groups at the Asperger Association of New England. Having completed her bachelor's degree in Economics and Psychology at Sophia College, Mumbai, India and Vermont College in Montpelier, Vermont, Eva went on to receive her master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Union Institute and University in Brattleboro, Vermont. Eva is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Massachusetts and a Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC). She is a member of the National Board for Certified Counselors, and a member of the Massachusetts Mental Health Counselors Association. A published poet, long-time yoga practitioner, and a Buddhist, Eva was a successful graphic designer in her career prior to counseling. In addition to psychotherapy, couples' counseling, diagnosis and consultations, Eva is also available for speaking engagements, training's, and workshops. She is also currently accepting clients for life and relationship coaching by phone or video conferencing.

12/07/2025

What does real love look like?

Oscar says it’s loyalty, effort, and being understood by his non-spectrum wife even when he’s not “easy” to be with. 💛
This is just one powerful story from my 3rd book Armchair Conversations on Love and Autism.

Comment 🤍 if this resonated with you.

12/04/2025

A diagnosis isn’t based on a single moment; it’s built from patterns, behaviors, and how daily life truly feels.

Understanding ADHD means looking deeper than surface struggles. 🧠💭

Happy Thanksgiving!I know the holidays can feel overwhelming, especially for those who find social gatherings hard or do...
11/28/2025

Happy Thanksgiving!

I know the holidays can feel overwhelming, especially for those who find social gatherings hard or don’t have a family space that feels safe.

I’m keeping you in mind today and sending warm, nurturing thoughts your way.

Be kind to yourself, take breaks, and remember it’s not all or nothing. 💛

Every relationship deserves a chance, whether it’s to rebuild, reconnect, or find clarity about what comes next.Working ...
11/22/2025

Every relationship deserves a chance, whether it’s to rebuild, reconnect, or find clarity about what comes next.

Working with a counselor or coach isn’t just about “fixing” things; it’s about understanding each other better, learning, and making decisions you won’t look back on with regret.

Because the truth is… this moment won’t come again.
So why not make the most of it? ❤️

Therapy isn’t always a straight line; it often moves in seasons. 🌿Many clients take a pause during life transitions, car...
11/19/2025

Therapy isn’t always a straight line; it often moves in seasons. 🌿

Many clients take a pause during life transitions, career changes, caregiving, moving, and return when the timing feels right.

Coming back isn’t starting over; it’s continuing your story with a new perspective and renewed purpose.

Each return brings new insights, new goals, and a deeper understanding of self. 💛

Understanding is the foundation of connection.Explore practical ways couples can bridge differences and create meaningfu...
11/17/2025

Understanding is the foundation of connection.

Explore practical ways couples can bridge differences and create meaningful relationships. 💬💛

Read the full blog: marriage-with-autism 14 practical strategies now in audio format

Everyone deserves to feel understood.Our approach helps people reduce shame, improve communication, and build stronger c...
11/11/2025

Everyone deserves to feel understood.

Our approach helps people reduce shame, improve communication, and build stronger connections in life and in relationships.

It’s not about changing who you are, but understanding yourself better. 🌿

Reach out to start your journey toward clarity and connection.

Explore powerful reads that shed light on neurodiverse relationships, helping you better understand, communicate, and co...
11/08/2025

Explore powerful reads that shed light on neurodiverse relationships, helping you better understand, communicate, and connect. Each book offers unique insights into how love, empathy, and growth show up in neurodiverse partnerships.

✨ Read. Reflect. Relate.

Join the journey of learning one book at a time.

✨ Emotional Balance Starts Within ✨Meditation helps you do more than just relax; it transforms how you feel and respond ...
11/05/2025

✨ Emotional Balance Starts Within ✨

Meditation helps you do more than just relax; it transforms how you feel and respond to life. 🌿

It reduces stress and anxiety, strengthens resilience, and fosters greater harmony in your relationships. Over time, it boosts happiness, optimism, and a lasting sense of peace and well-being.

🧘‍♀️ Take a moment today - your mind will thank you.

Everyone on the autism spectrum is different.Some need a little help, some need more and that’s okay.Understanding equal...
10/28/2025

Everyone on the autism spectrum is different.
Some need a little help, some need more and that’s okay.
Understanding equals kindness. 🌈

I've been working on creating a set of autism / AuDHD / neurodiversity-affirming cards. Each card offers gentle, encoura...
10/26/2025

I've been working on creating a set of autism / AuDHD / neurodiversity-affirming cards. Each card offers gentle, encouraging affirmations around things like self-acceptance, emotional regulation, executive functioning, social skills, sensory sensitivities, school, work, and relationships.

They’re little reminders to help you feel seen, supported, and grounded exactly as you are.

Here’s today’s card. 💛

🌟 Sensory overload can be tough, but with understanding and small changes, couples can navigate it more effectively toge...
10/23/2025

🌟 Sensory overload can be tough, but with understanding and small changes, couples can navigate it more effectively together. 💙

This post shares simple tips for both autistic partners and non-spectrum partners to manage sensitivities, prevent meltdowns, and build stronger relationships. 🌈

📖 Want more? Check out Eva Mendes' book Marriage and Lasting Relationships with Asperger’s Syndrome on Amazon.

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