Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC

Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC Autism/ADHD Expert & Author: Diagnoses, Therapy, Couples’ Counseling, Coaching, and Consultations Besides English, she is fluent in Hindi, Urdu, and Konkani.

Eva Mendes is a skilled and successful couple’s counselor working with couples where one or both partners have Asperger Syndrome, and are on the Autism Spectrum (diagnosed or undiagnosed). She also specializes in ADHD and those with related neurological profiles. Since 2009, she has worked almost exclusively with highly accomplished and gifted neurodiverse adults. Originally from Mumbai, India, Eva has expertise in treating individuals and couples from a wide variety of cultural and ethnic backgrounds. Eva offers groundbreaking, research-based, practical solutions to life's challenges tailored to each client’s needs, neurology and personality. Clients who work with Eva report feeling motivated, and empowered to change their lives with strategies and resources that actually work. Eva provides a combination of proven therapies such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy, Positive Psychology and Mindfulness Practices. She leverages both the latest research, and her professional experience to help people overcome obstacles and create lasting and happy relationships. An expert on the topic of Asperger Syndrome and social-communication challenges, Eva has spoken at conferences and colleges. She has written several papers on this subject and a thesis, Bridging Parallel Play in AS Marriageeva mendes asperger marriage. Eva leads the popular Spouse and Partners’ and the Couple’s Support Groups as well as the Women's Support Groups at the Asperger Association of New England. Having completed her bachelor's degree in Economics and Psychology at Sophia College, Mumbai, India and Vermont College in Montpelier, Vermont, Eva went on to receive her master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Union Institute and University in Brattleboro, Vermont. Eva is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Massachusetts and a Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC). She is a member of the National Board for Certified Counselors, and a member of the Massachusetts Mental Health Counselors Association. A published poet, long-time yoga practitioner, and a Buddhist, Eva was a successful graphic designer in her career prior to counseling. In addition to psychotherapy, couples' counseling, diagnosis and consultations, Eva is also available for speaking engagements, training's, and workshops. She is also currently accepting clients for life and relationship coaching by phone or video conferencing.

03/17/2026

They’re not shutting you out; they’re simply trying to make sense of what’s happening. A little patience and a lot of compassion go a long way in love. 💛

03/15/2026

Real couples. Real patterns. Real solutions.

After hearing “just tell us what to do” again and again, this step-by-step roadmap was created to turn confusion into clarity and action.

Practical, goal-driven, and built from real conversations because progress should never feel overwhelming.

Feeling seen and understood can change everything.Grateful to support clients on their journey to clarity and self-under...
03/12/2026

Feeling seen and understood can change everything.

Grateful to support clients on their journey to clarity and self-understanding.

03/10/2026

My third book, Conversations on Love and Autism, explores what really happens in neurodiverse relationships.

From intimacy and communication to parenting, finances, and couples counseling experiences, this book brings honest conversations from couples who have lived it.

If you’ve ever thought, “This sounds exactly like my relationship,” you’re not alone.

03/08/2026

In this video, I’m reading a short moment from my book Conversations on Love and Autism to show something important even happy neurodiverse couples have hard moments. You’ll hear how a small misunderstanding can turn into emotional distance, and how those patterns begin.

What I love most is that these stories don’t stop at the low points; these couples show us how to grow, reconnect, and move forward together. If you’ve ever thought, “This sounds like us,” you’re not alone. 💙

Therapy isn’t about changing who you are it’s about understanding yourself more deeply and building the tools that actua...
03/06/2026

Therapy isn’t about changing who you are it’s about understanding yourself more deeply and building the tools that actually work for your brain. 💛

Whether you’re navigating autism, ADHD, anxiety, executive functioning challenges, identity, or burnout you deserve support that’s affirming, practical, and culturally aware.

You don’t have to mask. You don’t have to over-explain. You don’t have to do this alone. 🌿

Ready to take the next step toward clarity and confidence? ✨

03/03/2026

Thank you so much for your kind and heartfelt message. 💛

I’m truly grateful for the trust you placed in me and honored to have been part of your journey. Wishing you a wonderful holiday and continued growth, connection, and peace together. 🌿

Support that understands your neurology.I work with individuals, couples, and families to strengthen emotional regulatio...
03/02/2026

Support that understands your neurology.

I work with individuals, couples, and families to strengthen emotional regulation, communication, executive functioning, and intimacy through a neurodiversity-affirming lens.

Ready to take the next step?
📩 Reach out to schedule a consultation.

02/28/2026

Three POWERFUL books. Life-changing perspectives on love, marriage, autism, AuDHD, and gender identity, sexuality and neurodiversity.
Available now on Kindle - read anytime, anywhere.

02/26/2026

🎬 Episode 1 of the Neurodiverse Love documentary is now available.
On the Youtube channel

Take a deeper look into real neurodiverse relationships.

Marriage is a mirror.It reflects your triggers, your patterns, your blind spots not just your partner’s.Real change begi...
02/26/2026

Marriage is a mirror.

It reflects your triggers, your patterns, your blind spots not just your partner’s.

Real change begins when you stop asking, “Why won’t they change?”
and start asking, “What can I shift within myself?”

Small daily inner work creates lasting relational growth.

What’s one behaviour you’re working on right now? 💭✨

02/24/2026

💛 Real couples. Real stories. Real neurodiverse love.

The Neurodiverse Love Docuseries shares powerful, honest conversations about what helps neurodiverse relationships grow, thrive, and stay connected. Featuring real couples and expert insight, this series highlights both the challenges and the strengths within these partnerships.

This project has truly been a labor of love by Mona Kay love, and we’re so excited to finally share it with you.

If you’re in a neurodiverse relationship or love someone who is this is for you.

🎬 Watch Now
🔔 Follow for monthly episode releases
💬 Share with someone who might benefit.

Let’s keep the conversation about neurodiverse love going.

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