Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC

Eva A. Mendes, LMHC, NCC Autism/ADHD Expert & Author: Diagnoses, Therapy, Couples’ Counseling, Coaching, and Consultations Besides English, she is fluent in Hindi, Urdu, and Konkani.

Eva Mendes is a skilled and successful couple’s counselor working with couples where one or both partners have Asperger Syndrome, and are on the Autism Spectrum (diagnosed or undiagnosed). She also specializes in ADHD and those with related neurological profiles. Since 2009, she has worked almost exclusively with highly accomplished and gifted neurodiverse adults. Originally from Mumbai, India, Eva has expertise in treating individuals and couples from a wide variety of cultural and ethnic backgrounds. Eva offers groundbreaking, research-based, practical solutions to life's challenges tailored to each client’s needs, neurology and personality. Clients who work with Eva report feeling motivated, and empowered to change their lives with strategies and resources that actually work. Eva provides a combination of proven therapies such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy, Positive Psychology and Mindfulness Practices. She leverages both the latest research, and her professional experience to help people overcome obstacles and create lasting and happy relationships. An expert on the topic of Asperger Syndrome and social-communication challenges, Eva has spoken at conferences and colleges. She has written several papers on this subject and a thesis, Bridging Parallel Play in AS Marriageeva mendes asperger marriage. Eva leads the popular Spouse and Partners’ and the Couple’s Support Groups as well as the Women's Support Groups at the Asperger Association of New England. Having completed her bachelor's degree in Economics and Psychology at Sophia College, Mumbai, India and Vermont College in Montpelier, Vermont, Eva went on to receive her master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at Union Institute and University in Brattleboro, Vermont. Eva is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Massachusetts and a Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC). She is a member of the National Board for Certified Counselors, and a member of the Massachusetts Mental Health Counselors Association. A published poet, long-time yoga practitioner, and a Buddhist, Eva was a successful graphic designer in her career prior to counseling. In addition to psychotherapy, couples' counseling, diagnosis and consultations, Eva is also available for speaking engagements, training's, and workshops. She is also currently accepting clients for life and relationship coaching by phone or video conferencing.

09/03/2025

🎧 New Episode - Neurodiverse Love Podcast 🎙️
Host: Mona Kay

A couple of months ago, I had a heartfelt conversation with Mona Kay on the Neurodiverse Love podcast! 🎙️ If you're in a neurodiverse relationship or you’re an autistic or AuDHD individual, this episode Self-Discovery, Personal Growth, and Discernment—may really resonate. We explore how these values can support clarity, connection, and emotional resilience in everyday life. 💡💞

Click the link in my bio → go to Podcasts → and have a listen!

www.eva-mendes.com

Love, Autism & Real Connection 💙What truly makes a neurodiverse relationship work? Armchair Conversations on Love and Au...
09/01/2025

Love, Autism & Real Connection 💙

What truly makes a neurodiverse relationship work? Armchair Conversations on Love and Autism invites you into the heartfelt, unfiltered stories of 20 couples navigating love, communication, parenting, s*x, and more through the lens of autism.

Written by autism counselor Eva Mendes, this book breaks stereotypes, celebrates resilience, and amplifies autistic voices in relationships that are anything but ordinary. 🌟🧩💬

📖 Read now and discover the secrets of lasting connection in neurodiverse love.

👉 www.eva-mendes.com
📦 Available on Amazon: https://bit.ly/4kFL1aZ

Just wrapped an incredible photoshoot with the amazing punksterphotography 📸 and stunning styling by Chela  💫 I’m so gra...
08/29/2025

Just wrapped an incredible photoshoot with the amazing punksterphotography 📸 and stunning styling by Chela 💫 I’m so grateful for their talent, vision, and warmth throughout the process. I felt so seen and supported.💛

Can’t wait to share these photos with you all… stay tuned! ✨

Looking to strengthen your neurodiverse relationship? 💙✨Whether you're navigating differences in communication, emotiona...
08/27/2025

Looking to strengthen your neurodiverse relationship? 💙✨
Whether you're navigating differences in communication, emotional expression, or daily routines, we’re here to help. Our specialized support for autism & ADHD couples offers practical tools and guidance to build deeper understanding and a lasting connection. 🤝🧠💬

Ready to grow together with clarity and connection? 💬

Contact us today and take the first step toward a stronger, more supportive relationship. 🤝💙

📧 Reach out: admin@eva-mendes.com
🌐 Learn more: www.eva-mendes.com

08/25/2025

When you’re cozying up with your partner and they’re ready to stop before you are… sound familiar? 💔🐾

Just like my cat Chicku, who gets overstimulated with too much cuddling with his brother, Bodhi, many autistic partners also reach their limit with touch sooner rather than later. Sometimes it’s sensory overload, other times it’s a wandering mind or ADHD restlessness kicking in.

It’s not about rejection—it’s about regulation. 💛✨

👉 Tip: Try talking openly about cuddle “timeframes” or exploring other ways to connect—like shared activities, words of affirmation, or just sitting side by side. Connection comes in many forms. 🌸

Thank you, Toni Bator Coaching, Neurodiversity & Positive Psychology Coach, for your generous and affirming words ✨I’m t...
08/25/2025

Thank you, Toni Bator Coaching, Neurodiversity & Positive Psychology Coach, for your generous and affirming words ✨

I’m truly honored to collaborate in supporting neurodivergent individuals with insight, compassion, and respect 🧠💙

Your feedback means a great deal 🙏

I've been working on creating a set of autism / AuDHD / neurodiversity-affirming cards. Each card offers gentle, encoura...
08/22/2025

I've been working on creating a set of autism / AuDHD / neurodiversity-affirming cards. Each card offers gentle, encouraging affirmations around things like self-acceptance, emotional regulation, executive functioning, social skills, sensory sensitivities, school, work, and relationships.

They’re little reminders to help you feel seen, supported, and grounded exactly as you are.

Here’s today’s card. 💛

✨ Big news! My podcast episode is out on Get Obsessed: With Living Your Best Life 🎙️💫 The episode is called: “The Loneli...
08/22/2025

✨ Big news! My podcast episode is out on Get Obsessed: With Living Your Best Life 🎙️💫

The episode is called:
“The Loneliness Epidemic: Eva Mendes on Lasting Love, Digital Disconnection & Building Real Relationships” 💛

Here are a couple of quotes:
There are no shortcuts in life—especially in relationships. You have to do the work.” – Eva Mendes

“Relationships are mirrors—when you’re alone, you think you’re awesome. The moment you’re with someone, you see your real issues.” – Julie Lokun

Tune in now and don’t forget to subscribe, rate & share 🙏✨


Empowering students on the autism spectrum with personalized guidance for college transitions, independent living, and l...
08/20/2025

Empowering students on the autism spectrum with personalized guidance for college transitions, independent living, and life skills. Our in-person and virtual consultations provide practical strategies and compassionate support every step of the way. 🌟🧠

📧 Email: admin@eva-mendes.com
🌐 Website: www.eva-mendes.com

Start your journey with confidence, reach out today!

We're deeply grateful for these kind words 🙏💬 It’s an honor to support individuals and families on their journey toward ...
08/18/2025

We're deeply grateful for these kind words 🙏💬 It’s an honor to support individuals and families on their journey toward understanding and connection in neurodiverse relationships 💞🧠 Every step forward brings new clarity and hope ✨🌈

Learn more at www.eva-mendes.com.

✨ Exciting news! I’ll be featured on the Get Obsessed: With Living Your Best Life podcast 🎙️💫 In this episode, I sit dow...
08/18/2025

✨ Exciting news! I’ll be featured on the Get Obsessed: With Living Your Best Life podcast 🎙️💫

In this episode, I sit down with Julie Lokun to talk about love and relationships—one of my favorite topics! 💛 The episode goes live this Thursday, and I can’t wait for you to hear it.

In the meantime, check out the show wherever you get your podcasts and don’t forget to rate, review, share, and subscribe to support this amazing platform 🙏✨
Thank you Julie!

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