01/16/2026
New AVOS Blog
In our rush to autonomy, have we list community? What do we owe each other? Is avoidance being dressed-up as “self-care?”
They’re everywhere—on Instagram slides, in therapy-speak, stitched into conversations like punctuation. Protect your peace. Don’t overextend. You don’t owe anyone anything. And while some of this wisdom is long overdue (especially for those of us who learned love meant self‑abandonment and...