01/18/2026
If you haven’t noticed, I’ve been walking through an incredibly trying time in my life. But through it all I’m remembered of the value of vulnerability.
This isn’t so I can be understood by others.
This isn’t a plea to look at me.
This is a moment of me reaching out to you, if you too are suffering in a way that feels isolating and alone.
We were never meant to do it alone. Yet the world likes to tell us that grief, sadness, pain, any semblance of vulnerability is weakness.
And I’m once again here to CHALLENGE THAT LIE.
I don’t believe it is weakness to show you my raw wounds. I don’t believe it is weakness to share about one of the greatest connections a human can have being snuffed out; and trying desperately to find footing again after that loss.
In fact I think it is the bravest thing I can do. To come and share with you the truth of the cost of love.
I’ve wondered how on earth we willingly walk into relationships knowing that somewhere out there, there will be a day that we will walk home alone…with nothing but the memories.
But love.
LOVE alone is worth the fight. And I REFUSE to give up on LOVE. Grief is the cost of LOVE, yes. But LOVE IS THE GIFT OF A LIFETIME, that makes the moments we don’t think we can go on a moment of soul rumbling and a battle cry ringing out into the vast emptiness that is our arms without them. Calling us to love even DEEPER.
Calling us to never allow our hearts to be walled off, but instead to be opened further.
It is an appreciation of that love that can open us up in ways we never imagined. Because we are honoring that bond. Refusing to let it be buried in our mountain of tears. But instead becoming our anchor of hope, that this is the rough sea, but there is a day coming that will bring us peace.
I intend to share my life as always with you, and I hope that in some small way, I can encourage you right where you are at. Because for me, this is more than a job. It is JOY to walk beside you and help you as you heal your heart.
XO