01/14/2026
Shakespeare told us "What's past is prologue".
It means that what happened informs what's coming
but it's not the actual plot of the story.
The past doesn’t get to define who you are today.
Or tomorrow.
Or the person you are still becoming.
That includes what happened to you —
the harm, the neglect, the things you never should have had to carry.
And it also includes what you did to survive —
the choices you made before you knew better,
when you were scared, dysregulated, young, overwhelmed, or alone.
Forgiveness isn’t pretending it didn’t matter.
It’s refusing to let yesterday keep holding the pen.
You don’t have to excuse what hurt you.
And you don’t have to punish yourself forever for who you were
before you had the tools you have now.
The only moment that’s actually real
is this one.
That’s not denial.
That’s power.
So the question isn’t
“Who was I?”
or
“What was done to me?”
The question is: Who do I choose to be with this breath, this body, this life — now?
You get to decide.
Again.
And again.
And again.
💜🙏🏻💜