Ryan Fightmaster MD

Ryan Fightmaster MD Writer and psychiatrist. It took the latter to understand I’m the former. Why did I do it? Because I was scared and "supposed to".

I went to medical school, incurred $200K in student loans, completed a residency program, and earned my board certification in psychiatry, while never wanting to be a doctor. In that process, I lost my "want to". In 2022, I left it all behind (including a $400K/year salary), to build a life I love and want. If you can relate, join me as I figure it all out (and help you do the same).

Quitting medicine is impossible, right? If you listen to these excuses, like I did for years, then sure, quitting medici...
10/01/2025

Quitting medicine is impossible, right? If you listen to these excuses, like I did for years, then sure, quitting medicine is out of the question. But eventually, I saw them for what they were—fear—and STOPPED listening.

Quitting medicine is a massive decision. I should know: it took me eight years—medical school and psychiatry residency—to summon enough belief in myself to q...

The search for je ne sais quoi 🛹
09/27/2025

The search for je ne sais quoi 🛹

Extreme phone makeover, existential edition 🔨
09/20/2025

Extreme phone makeover, existential edition 🔨

Out of equilibrium, into bed
09/13/2025

Out of equilibrium, into bed

Seeking a more optional golden-retriever existence 🎯
09/06/2025

Seeking a more optional golden-retriever existence 🎯

Assuming control of our past's ROI 📈
08/30/2025

Assuming control of our past's ROI 📈

A sterile field no more 🏥
08/23/2025

A sterile field no more 🏥

I loathe pumpkins in August 👊🎃
08/16/2025

I loathe pumpkins in August 👊🎃

The sweaty road to responsibility
08/09/2025

The sweaty road to responsibility

Rinse off the chlorine, repeat 🩳
07/26/2025

Rinse off the chlorine, repeat 🩳

07/23/2025

What have I learned from quitting medicine, a career that I worked eight years to obtain?

Aside from the obvious—like, maybe don't dedicate eight years to something you don't wanna do—I've finally grasped something: 𝙖𝙣𝙨𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙞𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙪𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙧𝙩𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙮.

For years, I wanted to quit my job, and I wanted a new job. But, to able to quit my job, I thought I needed the perfect new job. I sought my answers from inside of certainty.

When the time came to quit medicine because I couldn't work another day in a field that wasn't who I was, I quit without a plan and without a perfect new job. But slowly, a path emerged, answers appeared, and I followed them into my new job, where I write and refinish furniture.

Never, in all of my days of searching for a new job while I was a doctor, did I envision what I'm doing now. I had to live it... to find it.

To quit your job, you don't need a perfect job. You need uncertainty.

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Swings at eternity 🎯
07/20/2025

Swings at eternity 🎯

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