02/05/2026
From a practical perspective, one of my teachers used to say that if a problem CAN be solved, then there is no reason to worry about it. And if the problem CAN'T be solved, then worrying about it will do no good.
Another one of my teachers had a different and show-stopping perspective on worrying. She said, "Worrying is praying for what you don't want."
Yikes! Think about that for a while..
But even at its most neutral state, worrying is just a waste of time. And since I'm a visual learner, I like this explanation the most: worrying is like a rocking chair—it gives you something to do, but it doesn't get you anywhere.