Asheville Marriage Counseling

09/08/2024

This is a critical piece of what I help couples to understand as they share their lives together. Even when being side by side in the same situation, they are having two distinct and separate experiences of the event. Arguing about who's remembering or interpreting a shared experience correctly is futile. There are two different versions.

Researchers discovered that eye movements significantly affect how individuals perceive a film. Their study shows that while watching the same movie, each person’s brain creates a unique representation based on their eye movements.

05/27/2024

What a wonderfully insightful and thoughtful interview with a divorce attorney speaking to modern marriage.

James S*xton is America's top divorce lawyer, and bestselling author of romantic advice books 'How to Stay in Love' and 'If You're in My Office, It's Already...

01/14/2024

Strong communication is the key to a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Harvard psychologist and "Letting Go of Your Ex" author Dr. Cortney Warren reveals the phrases that the happiest and most successful couples say to each other every day.

01/01/2024

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09/13/2023

We are not all the same. Here's a simple non threatening inquiry you might make of a partner. Which way does you brain think?

Which camp are you in?

10/21/2022

🤍Live your life grounded in the Truth within your heart.

🤍The old saying, "The truth will set you free" is real.

🤍You will have nothing to hide or fear when you speak truthfully and kindly.

(When we avoid difficult conversations, we trade short-term discomfort for long-term dysfunction.-Peter Bromberg)

10/05/2022

08/17/2022

Every one of life's transitions require retooling the habitual patterns and interactions we have with our partners. However, this isn't the recommended approach!

07/04/2022

This is why it's so important to develop a basic understanding of how our brains actually function. So many couples I meet don't initially understand our brains have an alarm system with only one setting: DANGER! If they can't learn that the alarm fires off with danger reactions, even over things like a partner putting the dishes in the dishwasher 'incorrectly', they'll have a lot of easily avoidable fights.

06/25/2022

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