06/24/2025
âThe Invisible Work of a Good Man: Thank God for Good Husbandsâđđžâ¤ď¸
Lately, Iâve been reflecting on what it means to have a true partner in parenting. Motherhood is toughâespecially in the early stages. When the days are long, the sleep is broken, and the to-do list never endsâitâs easy to focus on what feels overwhelming. But sometimes, in the quiet moments, weâre reminded of just how supported we are.
This morning, I woke up earlyâ6:00 AMâto try and get a head start on my day before my toddler woke up. I climbed out of bed, picked up the baby, and headed down to the kitchen to begin my morning pump and get the baby fed.
As I prepped his bottle, I looked out the kitchen windowâand there he was. My husband, outside at 6:00 in the morning while the house was still quiet and the sun hadnât fully risen yet, watering the grass and spraying bug repellent.
It may seem small, but to me, it felt huge. That simple act told me he was protecting our space, thinking ahead, keeping our home safe and comfortable for the kids and for me. And he was doing it before his day had even officially begun.
After finishing the pump, I went to store the milk in the fridge and was met with another wave of gratitude. Our refrigerator was fullâfresh strawberries, apples, grapes, crisp lettuce, celery, asparagusâŚ.Eggs, cheese, grilled chicken, etc. Even a container of fresh cookies in the pantry. The basics and the little luxuries.
My husband had made a grocery run the day before while I stayed home with the kids. The weight of not having to think about what weâd eat this week felt like such a blessing.
I walked over to the kitchen sinkâŚspotless! Not a crumb in sight. Dishwasher already loaded, and clean dishes were sorted and put away.
Soon, our toddler was awake. I got her cleaned up, dressed, and brought her downstairs for breakfast. Just as I was about to get her settled, my phone lit up with a call from my husband, already downstairs in his home office.
âI just wanted to let you know I already got Andreaâs breakfast ready for her in the microwave. When youâre ready to head out, let me know so I can help you and the kids to the car.â
That small phone call made me feel so seen. So appreciated. It reminded me that I am not alone in this.
After breakfast, we packed up and headed out. My husband carried the babyâs car seat, strapped him in, and helped secure our daughter in her seat too. He kissed them both on their foreheads, wished us a safe drive, and waved us off. As I pulled away, I glanced at the gas tankâand smiled again. Full. Another thoughtful task quietly handled.
All of thisâthe groceries, the bug spray, the gas tank, the breakfast, the car seat bucklesâmight look like background noise. But today, I saw it clearly. Itâs what partnership looks like. Itâs how love shows up.
Because yes, being a mom to littles is intense. Itâs often isolating. And it can sometimes feel like youâre doing it all alone. But when I slow down and really look, I realize: I am able to do what I do because he does what he does. This is what it means to be a team.
So to my hardworking, loving, and selfless husband: Thank you. Thank you for showing up, day after day. Thank you for making the load lighter, even when itâs hard. Thank you for being my teammate in this beautiful, chaotic season of life.
And to those readingâif you have someone in your life who is showing up for you, who is supporting you in the quiet, behind-the-scenes ways: tell them thank you. Life moves fast. Gratitude spoken aloud matters.
â¨When is the last time you told someone in your village, âThank youâ?â¨
đЎChelsea Edwards,LMFT