08/24/2022
The transition to college can be harder on parents than on the actual college student. :)
Watching your baby leave home and transition to college life can be painful for a parent. You spend 2 decades of your life trying to keep another human safe and loved, and then you're expected to just let them leave on their own?
If your "grown-up baby" can transition to college life, find their classes, actually go to their classes, make new friends and take care of themselves... your parenting was a success.
Here are 3 tips to help with the transition:
1. Give them space. Your baby is no longer a baby. They are transitioning into a new phase of life, and need the space to explore with the comfort of knowing that MamaBear or PapaBear is there when they need you. They may not text or call as much as you would like. No college student does. And it's normal. Don't read too much into it.
2. Show them "how", but don't "do" for them. In this phase of their life, you want to teach them how to do things, but you don't want to default to doing everything for them. Teach them how to contact their primary care doctor for the refill of allergy meds. Teach them about their health insurance. Give them a chance to learn and try before you jump in to help.
3. Provide them with the tools they need. Provide them with the resources they need to be successful and happy on campus. This could mean access to $$, reassurance, validation, a safe dorm or apartment, a primary care doctor, therapist, or tutoring.
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