01/02/2023
A 4 yr ago Ted Talk still very much applies today!
Happy New Year!!
Does this sound familiar?
It will not take you long to find someone starting a "reset", "cleanse", "challenge" or "jumpstart" today. It may even be you!
The gyms are filled, folks have their new shoes and outfit setting out to make this year different than last.
They'll typically push themselves on the treadmill or elliptical for 30-60min, then walk around the weight machines looking at the card to see how to use it or watch the person before them for another 30 min.
The 5 years I worked at Life Time Fitness, I rooted for them.
The years I was in various gyms in January as I member, I rooted for them.
I could see it in their eyes. They really wanted this year to be different and I wanted that for them too. I would smile and say, "hi" trying hard not to draw too much attention to them, yet encourage them at the same time (and y'all know I'm not that social, lol). For a few, I even got to know their name.
Inevitably, after about 2-4 weeks, I stopped seeing them. It sucked and I HATED that for them because I knew what happened.
In addition to the workouts, they more than likely went on a "diet" or "cleanse", etc. and they struggled to stay on course.
To go from your eating and drinking your favorites the night before, to now drinking green drinks, eating baked chicken without much seasoning and broccoli, no doubt felt like a personal hell. But they do it, because this year was going to be different.
No doubt after 7 days of this, they hopped on the scale expecting to see the 7-10lbs that happen on The Biggest Loser, yet they got 2. No doubt, they thought, "what?", but decided to keep going.
The following week after gritting through the diet, juices, bland food, sweating and feeling hungry (and cranky), they hopped on the scale again. It went up 1lb.
At that point, it was over. "why bother" is the typical response and that's that, until the summer or next year.
Want to know WHY they (or you) fell off the "wagon"?
It's because you are trying to ride on someone else's wagon and not YOUR wagon!!
It's because you are doing all the things that are really hard for you and that you could never stick with. It's because you didn't know that you could go about this in a totally different way. Without the struggle, without the disappointment.
Where you felt empowered because you were making great choices for your body and health easily, where you didn't beat yourself up for having an off day, and you found that you didn't have to spend an hour at the gym doing things that you hate!
Learn to build the wagon that works for you!
You know how easy it is to do something you enjoy and that's fun? Well that's how getting healthy and treating your body well can be. I promise!
You don't need any more information on what's healthy (you know that) you need to know how to stick with making better choices and why you've had a tough time with that in the past. You have to go within to get the results on the outside.
You have to build your own wagon!
I encourage you to think about that and really do something different in 2019. Something that will last!
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Please share something that you're going to do to build your wagon!
For me, it wasn't cutting out any food groups. My wagon (had) sweets, and still has wings, fries and nachos. 🤷🏾♀️😋