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Dr. Mesha Ellis

Dr. Ellis is a Clinical Psychologist and S*x Therapist who specializes in treating relationship, int

03/11/2026

If your mood drops when you feel disconnected, you’re not needy, you’re human.
This week’s Moment breaks down the brain chemistry behind cuddling. It’s not just emotional, t’s chemical.
Watch this week’s episode to understand why even a few minutes of closeness can help you feel emotionally steadier and more connected. Then try a 2-minute connection cuddle. No phones. No talking. Just closeness.
Next week, I’ll talk about how cuddling helps with anxiety and sleep, and how to use it as a nightly ritual.
New Moments drop every Tuesday.

03/07/2026

Don’t forget to spring forward tonight!
Set your clocks ahead one hour before bed. And if you’re feeling off tomorrow, take a few deep breaths. Your body’s just adjusting.
See you on the other side - maybe with a little extra coffee!

03/06/2026

When the world feels uncertain or overwhelming, your nervous system responds. Anxiety, irritability, trouble sleeping, feeling on edge are signs that your body is trying to protect you from threat. These signals are alerting you that you need to bring down your level of activation and protect your peace.
But here’s what research tells us: you can’t stay in high alert forever without it affecting your health, your relationships, and your ability to function.
Knowing a few things that help regulate your nervous sytem is important.
Here are a some of them:
- Limit news consumption. Stay informed, but set boundaries. Constant scrolling keeps your nervous system activated.
- Move your body. Walking, stretching, dancing; movement helps discharge stress and regulate your system.
- Connect with someone safe. Talking with people you trust (not just about the news, but about life) helps your nervous system remember: I’m not alone.
- Ground yourself in the present. Notice what’s actually happening right now, in this room, in this moment. Your nervous system needs reminders that you’re safe here.
- Breathe intentionally. Slow, deep breathing (inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 6) signals your body to calm down.
You can care about what’s happening in the world AND protect your peace. Both matter.

Share in the comments one thing that helps you regulate when the world feels overwhelming? 👇🏽

03/04/2026

This week’s Moment is about the science of cuddling, and why that calm, connected feeling isn’t just nice, it’s necessary.
Watch this week’s episode for the full breakdown, then create at least one oxytocin moment:
Hug for 20 seconds. Hold hands for a minute. Sit close on purpose.
New episodes arrive every Tuesday. See you next week!

03/01/2026

That knot in your stomach before you walk in? It doesn’t mean you’re doing the wrong thing. It means you’re doing something brave. Walking into therapy for the first time can feel vulnerable. I get it.
You might be wondering: Will I be judged? Will this be awkward? What if I cry? What if my partner doesn’t want to be here?
Here’s what you can actually expect when you walk into my office:
A warm greeting. No judgment. A space where whatever you’re carrying is welcome; the fear, the frustration, the hope, the doubt. All of it.
Whether you’re here for couples therapy, s*x therapy, or an evaluation for your child, my job isn’t to fix you. It’s to understand you, support you, and help you find the clarity and tools you need to move forward.
So if you’ve been thinking about reaching out but haven’t taken that step yet, this is your sign. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to start.
I’m here when you’re ready.
What’s one question you have about starting therapy? Drop it in the comments, and I’ll answer.
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02/27/2026

Exciting News! The next weekend retreat for couples, ”The Art and Science of Love”, is now open for registration! And what’s more, it’s in beautiful Honolulu, Hawaii!
Based on over 40 years of research with thousands of couples, this two-day, intimate weekend workshop will give you new insights and research-based skills that can dramatically improve the intimacy and friendship in your relationship and help you manage conflict in a healthy, positive way. This workshop is limited to seven couples and provides an opportunity for learning, reflection, and resetting. Please note that no public disclosure is involved during the workshop. All work is done as a couple and I will be available to provide support during exercises.
This workshop is designed for ALL couples in a committed relationship. You do not need to be married. If you have a strong relationship, this workshop will provide you with insights and tools to foster further closeness, friendship, and trust. If your relationship is distressed, this two-day workshop will provide you with a greater understanding of your relationship and a road map for repair.
For more details and registration information go to the links in my bio.

02/25/2026

Welcome to Moments with Dr. Mesha!
I’m starting a new series where every Tuesday, I’ll share insights on relationships, intimacy, nervous system regulation, and what it really takes to love better.
Some moments will be about connection. Some about conflict. Some about desire, parenting, or simply how our bodies and brains work when we’re trying to show up for the people we love.
In this first episode, we’re talking about cuddling, and why it’s actually a nervous system intervention, not just affection.
New Moments will drop every Tuesday. I’m glad you’re here!
Music credit: Donnell Spencer, Jr.

02/22/2026

Easy like Sunday Morning
Caption: Sunday mornings can be one of the best times for connection. No rushing, no alarms, just… time.
But here’s the fun question: what does YOUR ideal Sunday morning with your partner look like?
Slow, intimate mornings together? Playful and spontaneous? Or maybe you’re someone who wants coffee and conversation first, connection later?
As a s*x therapist, I always remind couples: there’s no one “right” way to be intimate. It’s about what feels good for BOTH of you.
So, what’s your ideal Sunday vibe?

02/18/2026

Can we talk about ta***ic s*x for a second?
Because I think the internet has made it sound way more complicated (and way more celebrity-endorsed) than it actually is.

First, a quick reframe:
Ta**ra, at its core, isn’t really about s*x at all. It’s a broad spiritual tradition focused on awareness, presence, and connection. What most of us hear about online is a modern, Western adaptation that brings some of those principles into intimacy and relationships.

And no, it’s not about 8-hour sessions or contorting yourself into impossible positions. When I talk about ta***ic-inspired practices as a s*x therapist, I’m talking about slowing down. Breathing together. Paying attention to sensation. Being present with yourself and your partner, without rushing toward an outcome.

Because so many couples get stuck in performance mode.
Am I lasting long enough?
Do I look s*xy enough?
Am I doing this “right”?

That anxiety pulls us out of our bodies and into our heads, and that’s where intimacy tends to disappear.

Tantric-inspired practices gently shift the focus away from performance and toward embodied connection. Things like eye gazing. Synchronized breathing. Intentional, consensual touch. Moving at a pace that actually feels safe and connected. No pressure to perform. No goal to achieve.

And honestly? Sometimes the most intimate thing you can do is just sit together and breathe.
(Revolutionary, I know.)

Swipe through for what ta***ic s*x actually is vs. what the internet may have told you it should be. And if you’re curious, try the breathing exercise tonight, even if you giggle, feel awkward, or decide to stop early. That still counts.

Have you tried any ta***ic or mindfulness-based practices with a partner?
Drop your experience in the comments (or just tell me if you made it through the eye gazing without laughing).

02/17/2026

Do you worry about your child getting an evaluation? I hear you. For many parents, the idea can feel scary, overwhelming, or even stigmatizing. But here’s something that often gets missed. A diagnosis can open doors.
- Doors to school accommodations, like extra time, modified assignments, or sensory breaks.
- Doors to services such as speech therapy, occupational therapy, or counseling.
- Doors to greater understanding from teachers and caregivers.
It can also open the door to something just as important. Reduced shame.
“It’s not that I’m lazy or not trying. My brain just works differently.”
With the right information, children can access support that actually matches how they learn and process information. Over time, that clarity helps build self understanding and self advocacy skills.

Without clarity, many children quietly internalize their struggles. They may assume something is wrong with them, when in reality they just need the right support.
If you have questions about evaluations, what they involve, or whether one might be helpful for your child, feel free to drop them in the comments or send me a message.

02/14/2026

Whether you’re celebrating with a partner, friends, or yourself, I hope you feel seen, valued, and loved exactly as you are.
And a gentle reminder that love is built in the small, everyday moments of choosing each other, not just on days like today. ❤️

02/11/2026

Let’s be honest, you can’t just light a candle and expect sparks to fly.
But you also can’t skip emotional connection, jump straight to the “spicy stuff,” and then wonder why it feels off.

Here’s what I know from working with couples. Intimacy isn’t either/or.

It’s not deep emotional conversations or trying pole dancing in lingerie.
It’s both.

Emotional safety creates the foundation. Playfulness and novelty keep things alive. And sensual exploration and intentional touch are where desire gets to show up and play.

Think of it this way. You can’t build a fire without kindling. But kindling alone won’t keep you warm all night.
You need both.

So yes, ask your partner what helps them feel connected. Hold eye contact. Have the vulnerable conversations.
And also, take the dance class. Try something new in the bedroom. Talk about what you actually want. Get playful. Get curious. Get a little adventurous.
Your relationship gets to have depth and heat. You don’t have to choose.

So, which idea are you trying first? Let me know in the comments!

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2727 Paces Ferry Road SE, Suite 230
Atlanta, GA
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Monday	9am - 5pm
Tuesday	9am - 5pm
Wednesday	9am - 5pm
Thursday	9am - 5pm
Friday	9am - 5pm

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+16789057862

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http://www.irwsh.com/

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Welcome! My name is Dr. Mesha Ellis. I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and AASECT Certified S*x Therapist. Through my practice, I provide services designed to promote hope and wellness. I do this by working collaboratively and non-judgmentally with clients. I have a special passion for working with individuals and couples struggling with relationship issues, intimacy, and/or s*xual concerns. Specific areas of client concern include low or mismatched desire, healing from s*xual abuse, problems with or**sm, premature ej*******on, infidelity, out of control s*xual behavior, behavioral difficulties, as well as problems with mood and anxiety. I have completed advanced couples therapy training in Levels I, II, and III of Gottman Method Therapy. I am licensed to practice in California, Georgia, and Tennessee. My therapeutic style is characterized by warmth, empathy, humor, and a caring yet direct approach.

Please take some time to peruse the page as well as my website... and feel free to call for a free 10 minute initial consultation. I am more than happy to help you find resolution to your difficulties. We offer in-person and online therapy sessions to residents of California, Georgia, and Tennessee.