05/12/2025
When I think about the retreats I’ve been to, I picture this giant stained glass window. Each of us a different piece of glass, with our own shape and color. In regular life, most of us hang out in these little clusters of similar colors and shapes. The people we encounter become comfortable and familiar, but limiting.
Then you step into a retreat and suddenly you’re surrounded by a bigger subset of the stained glass window. There are people from different backgrounds, different geographic locations, different ages, and have different ways of seeing the world.
It’s in these retreats the fog and buildup of everyday life begins to lift and it’s like the glass gets cleaned. Everyone’s colors start to shine more vividly. You may show up thinking you are one color, then you start to see other people’s colors and realize, “Wait, I have some of that in me too.” Retreats create this rare space where we can shine our colors brightly - we can “wave our freak flag” proudly. And in doing that, we start to discover new parts of ourselves through others. We become mirrors for each other.
And maybe eventually we start to realize we aren’t these little slivers of stained glass window at all - we are the light shining through it. We are all connected and made of multitudes. 🪞
And alas, these slivers of time in retreat settings are not “real life” in an everyday sense. But they are a powerful reminder that we are all this big, beautiful mosaic. And we carry those colors with us, even after we go home.
🙏🙏
for the incredible photo 📸co for the amazing retreat 🪩✨