
03/18/2025
There are very few things that really irk me but this is a BIG one: DO NOT say "I’m sorry, 'but'".
I’m sorry is an acknowledgment that you messed up.
Following it up w “but” means you’re either making a justification (excusing your F-up) AND/OR: the apology is perfunctory.
EITHER WAY: STOP!
DO THIS: apologize: I’m sorry. I messed up. I will do my very best to not do _____ again. No excuses. It really is liberating!
SIDE NOTE: my-know-it-all kids KNOW this! I sat them both down and told them the three most important phrases (I think):
1. I love you
2. I’m sorry
3. I don’t know.
THOUGHTS?