Adoption Advocates

11/14/2025

We’ve had a lot of activity on our Facebook posts in the last two weeks – probably more than we’ve had in the last year combined!

We’re grateful for everyone who takes the time to engage with our posts. We truly value diverse perspectives and lived experiences. Even those that are uncomfortable to hear. Even those that we don’t always agree with.

To keep this space safe and productive, we ask that all comments remain respectful. Personal attacks, shaming, doxxing, name-calling, profanity, and the sharing of unverified or false information will be removed.

Thoughtful discussion helps all of us learn and grow, but these behaviors can harm vulnerable individuals and shut down the opportunity for real conversation.

Let’s keep the comments focused on the issues that matter, so we can work together toward better outcomes for children and the families who love them.

11/14/2025

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11/11/2025

Did you know that Adoption Advocates was founded by an adoptee? Hear founder Jane Hall talk about how her personal experience shaped her vision for the agency.

11/10/2025

Whether we're calling it "National Adoption Awareness Month" or "National Adoptee Awareness Month," one thing is for sure: this month offers a chance to highlight the voices of those most affected by adoption: the adoptee.

From podcasts to books to social media accounts, there are many adoptees sharing their stories and insights. We'll drop links to a few in the comments, but please feel free to share your favorites below!

11/10/2025

Heading into the holidays can be an emotional time for birth parents. If you're looking for some extra support, On Your Feet Foundation has several opportunities this month.

What makes our birthparent support groups different? A lot. We don’t work in the adoption industry, for starters, making us a truly neutral space in which to heal. We’ve been providing support for birthparents for nearly 25 years, so we have a long, proven track record of being the safe neutral space birthparents need in order to heal, and thrive. And the help and support we offer is free to birthparents, of course. That’s a given. We also aren’t just running one support call a month, because that model can be really difficult for people to access regularly. Instead we have 6 calls a month, some themed, some just open conversation, and one dedicated to birthparents navigating closed or in-reunion adoptions.

You don't have to be a client of ours to join BirthmomsConnect, and we are here for you regardless of how long ago you placed. These calls are held via Zoom, so you can log in from anywhere, and you don't have to give your last name - or even turn your camera on - to join us. Make a plan to find the healing community you deserve, surrounded by other birthmoms who have walked in your shoes.

Registration and info: https://f.mtr.cool/lzsjxhtgnh

11/09/2025

Adoption isn’t about “saving” a child or “doing a good deed.” It’s about building a family through love, respect, and mutual commitment.⁠
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Birth parents make an adoption plan because they want the best possible future for their child. Adoptive parents choose adoption because they’re ready to love and parent. Both come to the process with deep care, not pity or obligation.⁠
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It's also important to remember that A child is not a gift to be given or received. They are human beings with their own identities, needs, and stories — deserving of care, stability, and belonging.⁠
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When we let go of the charity narrative, we create space to honor the strength and intention behind every adoption story.

11/06/2025

AKA’s 2025 Virtual Conference stats tomorrow.

11/06/2025

As a social work or health care professional caring for expectant moms, you will often walk alongside her as she makes decisions for her baby’s future. Your role allows you to offer information, support, and space for reflection—but it’s important to avoid steering someone toward or away from a particular decision.

Even well-meaning comments like these can unintentionally tip the scales:

❌ “I could never give up my baby.”⁠
❌ “You’re so brave/selfless/strong.”⁠
❌ “You don’t have to do this.”⁠
❌ “You’re doing the right thing.”⁠
❌ “At least you’ll still get to see your baby.”⁠
❌ “Who’s the father? Does he know?”⁠

Learn why these phrases should be avoided-and what to say instead: http://bit.ly/4nRvQ0G

11/05/2025

Not every adoption story begins in infancy. Across Texas, there are amazing kids and teens waiting for a family to call their own through DFPS. Older child adoption offers the chance to provide stability, love, and belonging to a child who’s ready to share their heart and their story.

Adelynn, Ellie and Joel are full of personality, resilience, and cuteness. But more than anything, they want to stay together.

11/04/2025

"Why couldn't adoption be better than it was for me?"

Did you know that Adoption Advocates was founded by an adoptee? Hear founder Jane Hall talk about how her personal experience shaped her vision for the agency.

Adoption Advocates was founded in 1991 by adoptee and attorney Jane Hall. Her legal background influenced another basic value: to provide only extremely safe...

11/01/2025

November is National Adoption Awareness Month — a time to honor the many ways adoption builds and strengthens families.

Whether you’ve been personally touched by adoption or simply want to learn more, this month invites us all to listen, learn, and celebrate every unique adoption story.

10/31/2025

Meet Camryn & Austin, one of our couples approved and ready to adopt!

"Our home is full of laughter, music, and love, plus five silly we**ie dogs who keep us on our toes. We’re surrounded by family, friends, and a supportive community that we can’t wait to share with another child."

Pregnant and looking for someone to adopt your baby? Learn more about Camryn & Austin or send them a message!

https://www.adoptionadvocates.net/waiting-to-adopt-camryn-austin/