11/21/2025
Being an adult with past trauma can mean that staying and feeling safe can be a major part of how we move within the world.
- If I speak up, will I be less safe?
- If I say no, will I be less safe?
- If I make that person laugh, will I be safer?
- If I stand up for myself will I be at greater risk?
Many, most, or even all decisions may be weighed based on our ability to keep ourselves safe.
The desire to maintain our safety is very normal. But rearranging our lives to avoid every chance of danger is less healthy. Life sometimes takes risk. Some risk is worth it.
Each time we limit our lives due to our fear of risk we need to be sure that we have clearly and accurately weighed the actual situation and not basing our decision on our ongoing fears that are actually residuals from our childhood. Risk management is a part of life but 100% safety is not achievable nor really desirable.
I am an EMDR trained trauma therapist with offices in North Austin & Belton TX. I specialize in helping adults put their pasts behind them. I also offer sessions by video.
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