05/18/2026
Years ago, I was lucky to be included in an unusual group of people which sometimes included Humberto Maturana, the Chilean nurobiologist. I had to stretch to understand what he was saying and, to this day, I still do. Today I was excited to see his work mentioned by Maria Popova. His work and many others point us to the centrality of LOVE in life. Let's stretch our minds and hearts with this knowing. Find our way back to love again and again.
Once, in an extreme of despair, I posed to my therapist a version of the haunting thought experiment Mary’s Room: How, I asked her, can a person who has never been modeled healthy, secure, st…