01/05/2026
“The truest form of intelligence is designing and living the life that you want to live.” ✨
As a Latina holistic psychotherapist who has walked through trauma, scarcity, anxiety, and so many moments of “¿y ahora qué?”… I can say this with my whole heart:
My life didn’t change because I knew a lot.
It changed because I *felt*, *listened*, *healed*, and *chose* differently FOR MYSELF.
True intelligence isn’t just about grades, degrees, or being the “smart one” in your family.
It’s about becoming the **conscious architect** of your own life — a life that feels like truth, not just survival. 🦋
To me, that kind of intelligence has many layers:
🌿 Emotional Intelligence (EQ)
Learning to:
- Notice your feelings without judging them
- Pause instead of reacting from old wounds
- Communicate needs and set real boundaries
EQ turns pain into wisdom instead of more chaos.
✨ Spiritual Intelligence (SQ)
Connecting to something bigger than your fear:
- Trusting your intuition
- Honoring your ancestors and your inner voice
- Remembering you are guided, even when you feel lost
SQ is what helps you keep going when logic says “give up.”
🌱 Embodied & Practical Intelligence
Not just thinking differently, but:
- Resting without guilt
- Choosing healthy relationships
- Allowing joy, pleasure, and softness into your life
This is where healing becomes your *daily choice not just a concept.
💫 Takeaways
If you’re reading this, ask yourself:
1. **What part of my life no longer feels like “the essence of me”?**
2. **What tiny shift could I make this week to honor my emotional or spiritual needs?**
3. **If I truly believed I was worthy, what would I stop tolerating?**
You are not “behind.” You are not “too broken.”
You are in the sacred process of becoming the designer of your own life. And that… is the truest intelligence of all🥰 KEEP GOING! I hope this helps. Love you. Stella ❤️