08/05/2025
I love that Elizabeth calls it a dress rehearsal. I saw it as a pre-birth huddle. it was great getting together and getting a good perspective of the situation. Then we'll get the real deal later, and we already have all the plans pre-discussed from this pre-birth huddle!
Sometimes, we get a birth dress rehearsal. In this case, a set of twins that seemed anxious to get here for a while, decided later it was time for a nap and to wait for another day.
And as said so well “If you can’t have patience, you shouldn’t be a midwife.”
So a picture was still taken, over a labor story shared not just by this mama, but so many. One where we call before the birth is meant to be. It’s a story I have lived myself.
The time is never wasted. There’s always some progress toward the goal of having the baby, and there’s always something learned.
Birth is not a set of numbers. It isn’t an all or nothing. It is a journey, a right of passage, a labor of love and of patience for all involved.
In this case, it was joy. Because we all understood that patience is a virtue that is NOT optional when it comes to birth.
This birth story has chapters, just as many of them do.
So, if you have been a mom who has called the Midwife too early, or had a practice run, or worry that you will call too soon, know this, you are one of millions who have had to come to terms with this same unknown.
We can either wrestle with these moments, OR, take joy in the journey and snap a picture to remember the chapter.
Did you call the Midwife too early? If so, how long was it before you had your baby? I can’t wait to read your birth dress rehearsal stories!