Midwife Mykl

Midwife Mykl Home Birth Midwifery services. Serving Northern MN & Eastern ND — 1-1/2 hour radius of Bagley, MN. (With a few further exceptions.)

Stephanie’s first catch! A sweet baby boy was born in the night. It was one of those births where neither mom or dad fel...
05/19/2026

Stephanie’s first catch! A sweet baby boy was born in the night. It was one of those births where neither mom or dad felt able to try to catch their baby in the moment.

This was a sweet repeat Amish family, and just as crowning was about to happen, I whispered to Stephanie, “want to put on some gloves and catch this baby?” Her answer was a very eager and willing “YES!” And of course baby was received straight up onto mamas chest—the best moment!

Moments like these are special. For the family too! It’s sweet to know certain families well enough (and have pre-labor conversation on the subject) to have the Midwife-In-Training do some important key pieces in their Skills/Practice. And the first chance to catch a baby is always special!

Congratulations to this sweet repeat family!

A sweet baby boy arrived this last week, to a really sweet 3peat family! Susan & Hannah both got to Assist, just like th...
05/17/2026

A sweet baby boy arrived this last week, to a really sweet 3peat family! Susan & Hannah both got to Assist, just like they did with the other 2 babies of this family. It’s so sweet to serve a family several times in a row, and extra sweet when I can have some of the same Birth Assistants there too. The family knows their birth team well!

It was so great to connect with Ashley of , from down in Alexandria, MN! What was planned to be a simple meet up for cof...
05/06/2026

It was so great to connect with Ashley of , from down in Alexandria, MN! What was planned to be a simple meet up for coffee turned into 2-1/2 hours of amazing Midwife conversation. Ashley is a gem!

Thanks for reaching out, Ashley! We definitely need to do coffees again sometime!

And the fact that it’s International Day Of The Midwife today made it all the more appropriate!

7 babies in 14 days has been more than just a little crazy! And I’ll be wrapping up the aftermath of rescheduling routin...
04/18/2026

7 babies in 14 days has been more than just a little crazy! And I’ll be wrapping up the aftermath of rescheduling routine visits for a while. A few of the March babies decided to come in April, and 1 last minute transfer into care were some of the reasons for this unusual birth cluster. But now April is basically done, and the month still has so much time left!

A breech vaginal birth, a Homebirth after 3 cesareans, a gentle birth after past trauma, a deep desire for a waterbirth, a first time mama with a long pushing phase, an active labor that faded away to rest the body and came back again (reminding everyone of the importance of patience in birthwork), and several more unique things—but all 7 were beautiful Homebirths!

Another unique aspect was doing 2 births with Alivia, and 3 births with both Susan and Hannah—all in this stretch! Considering they’re not my most regular Birth Assistants, it was fun to get to do several births with them all!

And now it’s time for sleep before a long Saturday of hours of driving and 3 new mama/baby postpartum home visits. 😍

Imagine the pure joy and relief a mama would feel when she has a beautiful natural birth, after experiencing 3 past c-se...
04/09/2026

Imagine the pure joy and relief a mama would feel when she has a beautiful natural birth, after experiencing 3 past c-sections and secondary infertility.

The tears of joy. The realization that her body isn’t broken. The past trauma beginning to melt away.

Can you imagine?

Now imagine for a moment that none of those cesareans were necessary in the first place, and all the trauma from these surgical deliveries could have been avoided.

I’ll try to summarize:

👶 Baby #1: Cesarean chosen by doctors, due to Breech presentation. No other indications for cesarean. Only because Breech isn’t “allowed” there. Pre-labor cesarean preformed. “Oh, don’t worry,” she was told, “you can always have a VBAC next time.”

(Can you feel the lack of autonomy? This mama would have chosen a breech vaginal birth, if she wouldn’t have been told no.)

👶 Baby #2: Her doctors say: “Yes, you can have a VBAC. But you can’t go past 39 weeks. We’ll just induce you.” This time she has a cephalic presentation [head down baby], so “it should be a pretty straight forward birth.”

Induction began, and was going along well for a while. Then as labor advanced, she began showing signs of uterine rupture, so she was rushed to the O.R. for an emergency cesarean.

(Rates of uterine rupture is known to be higher when paired with induction, compared to the body’s spontaneous, non-augmented labor. But she’s told to be grateful that she was in the hospital and that they ‘saved her baby’s life.’ Of course she’s grateful. But she’s also traumatized, as well as confused about their opinions that claim she needed induction.)

👶 Baby #3: She’s told now that she is far too high risk to have a VBAC. “You have a uterine rupture in your history. You are not allowed to have a vaginal birth.” A pre-labor cesarean was planned for 37 weeks, due to the doctor’s worry of this mama going into labor.

(Again, the doctors choices. Not the mother’s. And do you notice how each subsequent cesarean is simply a side effect of the risks that were created by doing the first cesarean? And do you notice how the first cesarean was caused by stripping away the woman’s autonomy to have a breech vaginal birth?)

🤷🏻‍♀️ Then comes 5 years of secondary infertility. She’s told “this is a known side effect of having c-sections.” And it’s true. This is the reality for many women. “Scar tissue build up is often part of the problem.” Yes, that’s true too. Not the only cause, but certainly a part of the problem in many cases.

🙋🏼‍♂️At 4+ years postpartum, she had moved to another area. She decided to seek fertility and potential VBAC option advice of a local Midwife who her sister had hired for one of her recent Homebirths. After doing so, she began a strict nutrition regimen of foods and supplements, and fascia release as well, to promote fertility and heal internal scar tissue as best we can. The results weren’t guaranteed. But they were worth a solid try. Her mama heart deeply desired another baby.

👶 Baby #4: At more than 5 years after her 3rd baby, and about 1 year of being on the nutritional protocols, she became pregnant!

🙋🏼‍♂️ She decided to call that same Midwife again. This time it’s because she wanted to discuss the idea of a Homebirth. Every hospital within a number of hours of her would not ‘allow’ a VBA3C attempt. Every one of them would require a pre-labor cesarean at 37 weeks. Or an emergency cesarean upon arrival, if she were in spontaneous labor.

✅ But is it safe? Yes, it is—statistically speaking, still safer than the risks of a repeat 4th cesarean, but only if done spontaneously, without induction or augmentation. We discussed all the things we can do to set her up for the very best chance of success. But there’s also the chance of transfer for an emergency c-section if things don’t go as planned.

📉 The statistics say that VBA2C has a 1.8% chance of uterine rupture. But these studies include a huge percentage of induced labors. So we know that statistic is flawed, and the chances are actually less. But we don’t know how much less, because those statistics don’t exist.

📉 Also, published statistics for VBA3C don’t exist in large enough sample sizes to know the actual risks. And again, the numbers that do exist include mostly hospital stats that induce the mothers.

Making the plans for a safe delivery:
✅ Alternative birthing location planned/found within a few blocks of a large hospital.
✅ Assemble the birth team (thankful for 2 experienced Birth Assistants for this birth).
✅ Support labor starting ASAP to properly monitor (not waiting for active labor).
✅ Have a plan in place for quick transport if needed.
✅ No artificial labor encouragement (this includes herbs and ‘natural’ methods).
✅ Full informed decision making and consent with this mama, to honor her autonomy. Discussion of the risks including the worst possible outcomes and best possible outcomes, and EVERYTHING in between. (She appreciated these plans in place, even with the logistics they entailed. She wanted a solid chance. She deserved a solid chance.)
✅ And so so much more.

🤰🏼👶😍 What she got in the end:
✔️Zero restrictions of food and hydration during labor, to keep her energy up.
✔️Her first ever natural labor.
✔️Her first ever vaginal birth.
✔️Her first ever birth without unnecessary trauma.
✔️A supportive Birth Team who respected her informed decisions, and the backup plan that she was comfortable with.
✔️A calm birth environment with her husband and a dear friend present.
✔️As much immediate breastfeeding as she wanted.
✔️As much immediate skin-to-skin as she wanted.
✔️And so so much more.

Now imagine a world where Vaginal Breech Birth is fully supported by trained Providers—in hospitals, in birth centers, and in homes. And imagine how the above situation, along with all its traumas and major surgeries, could have been avoided.

And lastly, imagine a world where births after multiple cesareans are supported. Fully supported. (Not fear monger ‘supported.’ Not only-if-induced ‘supported.’ Not only-if-labor-by-39-weeks ‘supported.’ Because we all know that isn’t actual support.)

😍 A huge thanks to the family who hosted this beautiful birth!

😍😍😍 And a huge thanks to my Birth Assistants, and Midwives-in-training, Stephanie and Christina for their excellent help—as always!

Edited To Add: If you’re a Provider looking for Breech training, you can find it! There are many options out there, once you start looking. The best place to start is to look up Breech Without Borders. Midwives and Doctors with BWB are training Midwives and Doctors ALL OVER THE WORLD to be skilled in Vaginal Breech Birth! Find the training nearest you. Go! Learn! Become the change that women are seeking, whether it’s at home or hospital! Support VBB 😍

“Your baby is too big.” Or “Your pelvis is too small.” Or many are told BOTH.But these also make beautiful redeeming bir...
04/03/2026

“Your baby is too big.” Or “Your pelvis is too small.” Or many are told BOTH.

But these also make beautiful redeeming birth journeys. Because then these cesarean mamas start reading studies, and going down all the rabbit trails of research regarding CPD, and they come to discover that it was probably all a lie. A lie told to them to be able to justify the OB’s actions. Then they hire a supportive midwife team for the next baby, and have a straight forward beautiful vaginal birth.

What was actually the “problem” with that cesarean baby? Maybe nothing—maybe the only problem was a lack of Provider patience. But oftentimes the likely cause is a malpositioned baby. And yes, sometimes, in some situations, a malpositioned fetal head/baby can absolutely give enough issues to require a cesarean. BUT YOUR BODY IS NOT BROKEN.

I’ve been through this VBAC story with plenty of families. And the really funny part is several of those families who had a beautiful VBAC at home, after these lies they were told, had a baby that was a pound or two LARGER than the one that was “too big to fit through” when they had their prior cesarean.

The care team you choose matters. Interview ALL your options. Choose the one that fits your needs best.

She is triumphant! She was told she can never have a VBAC. She grows her baby's too big. She had many people tell her she shouldn't our can't. This makes me so sad and really angry! This is how women are undermined and made to feel inadequate. However, she listened to a higher voice, surrenders to His plan for her, trusted He made her perfectly capable of birthing her 10 pound plus babies. She did it brilliantly and she was a joy to walk this journey. It gives me the greatest happiness when she said she was proud of herself! All doubt had been vanquished. Congratulations momma! Your the best!

When there’s a sale on herbs and nutritional things that my clients need, you bet I’m going to jump on it to purchase th...
03/31/2026

When there’s a sale on herbs and nutritional things that my clients need, you bet I’m going to jump on it to purchase them. Why? Because spending this money now benefits my clients later. And because sometimes when things come up in pregnancy, we may need a supplement, tincture, or herb to start NOW—not in 2-7 days when shipping will get it to them. And many items specific to prenatal and postpartum care are not stocked in local stores.

I keep many things on hand for the benefit of my clients. And occasionally it’s for the benefit of another midwife or another midwife’s client who needs it right away.

Each item is marked with the price I’ve paid for it. When these items are passed on to clients and others who need them, it’s handed off for that same price I paid (within a few cents, because make it easier by round to the nearest dollar, up or down, to not dealing with coins). And so when I got it on sale that time, the client gets to pay the sale price.

Do I also send web links for these same items often? Yes! When it’s not urgent, or when it can be found locally, they can get it on their own.

Do I usually have several frequently utilized items packed in a box along with me on home visit days? Also yes.

This is just a small window into the logistics of bringing care to rural communities. Many midwives do so many things behind the scenes for the benefit of their clients, and the benefit of the community, that are of no monetary benefit to themselves. Why? Quite simply—because we care deeply about families.

Here’s to all the mamas, babies, and families plugging along through their pregnancy, birth, and postpartum journeys. ❤️

BREECH DAY with several of my Birth Assistants and a few other birthy friends was SO much fun!We were able to study some...
03/29/2026

BREECH DAY with several of my Birth Assistants and a few other birthy friends was SO much fun!

We were able to study some Breech lecture together, watch, pause, discuss, and learn from some breech births I’ve attended (thanks to those mamas for letting their videos and pictures be used for training purposes!), and then practice many scenarios, positions, and maneuvers on my new (somewhat makeshift) simulator!

There were 10 of us all together, plus a few babies. A few left before we thought to take a group photo. (And 2 attendees were Amish, so of course no photos were taken of them.) So much fun and so much learning!

And it was a special day for Birth Assistant Stephanie after breech class was over. As she got all caught up on sign offs for births, prenatals, and postpartum visits thus far! A fun first signing day!

I’m pretty sure I could have a good side gig going of Student Driver driving hour logging. If other busy parents who can...
03/20/2026

I’m pretty sure I could have a good side gig going of Student Driver driving hour logging. If other busy parents who can’t fit in their teenager’s 50 hours of driving needed to hire it out, I could probably get the job done! 🤣

Today my son Zeb got in 200 minutes and 155 miles. Rural Home Visit prenatal days are very handy for this. He’s also gotten 158, 337, 267, 217, and 224 minute days—and more. He usually gets 1 good long driving day a week, and is knocking these hours out as quickly as he can.

Whenever I’m getting ready to leave home for a long day, he looks over at me with a glimmer in his eye, “Is it a DRIVING day?!” Because if it is, he wants to come! He typically catches up on schoolwork or listens to audiobooks while I’m in the appointments, so it’s a win win. 😍😂

It was a Happy Pi Day! Apparently a lovely day for a Double BIRTHday Party! An early morning baby after a long through t...
03/16/2026

It was a Happy Pi Day! Apparently a lovely day for a Double BIRTHday Party! An early morning baby after a long through the night labor, and then a late afternoon baby! The 3.14 math wasn’t mathing, but the babies multiplied by 2! 🤷🏼‍♂️ (I’ll see myself out…) 🤦🏼‍♂️

The first birth was extra special, as I got to be the baby catcher for my sweet Great Nephew! Congratulations to my Nephew and Niece-in-law! This was my 3rd birth supporting them with Midwifery care, and each journey was very unique. This was such a beautiful Homebirth, with so many sweet moments!

This was the 3rd birth with Birth Assistant Maralee’s help, and she was such an intuitive, excellent assistant—again!

The second birth was so super sweet as well, with a family having their first Homebirth. Seeing the joy of this birth in their faces was so beautiful! I’m so honored to have gotten to witness it.

Birth Assistant Stephanie was my help for this birth, and always so wonderfully helpful! It was so special to get to work with Doula Sapphire as well! It’s been quite a while since getting to experience a birth together. She’s such a sweet Doula presence!

Between all the driving, one fairly long labor of being up all night, heading straight from one birth to the next one, and the two births being at opposite ends of the day, I put in a 40 hour day for this round. Left Friday morning and got home Saturday night. But oh I slept so good Saturday night! If only I could sleep that soundly every night—it felt amazing. 😍😂 Now that I’ve had 1 full night of sleep, I’m ready and waiting for the next call! 😍😂

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