Family Matters Counseling & Assessment Services

Family Matters Counseling & Assessment Services Providing quality therapeutic services to individuals, couples, and families in Kern County. Family Matters is owned and operated by Dr. Charree Kashwer.

11/13/2025

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11/10/2025

"If someone treats you poorly, remember it’s not a reflection of your worth, but a mirror of their character." ( Gen)

The gentle, liberating truth you must hold close is that cruelty directed toward you is never a measure of your soul. If someone treats you poorly, remember it’s not a reflection of your worth, but a mirror of their character.

When a person chooses unkindness, they are simply revealing the scarcity, the wound, or the internal noise that resides within their own spirit. You are not meant to receive their shadows; you are meant only to witness them.

Your sacred task is not to internalize their behavior and shrink, but to hold firm to the light of your own intrinsic value. When you view their poor actions as a mirror held up strictly to them, you instantly reclaim your peace and beautifully safeguard your own self-worth from their misplaced darkness.

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10/28/2025

" Everyone has two eyes…
but no one has the same view. "

Yes, every one of us has two eyes, but no two people see the same world. That's because the world is not seen as it truly is, but as we are.

Your mind holds a unique lens made of everything you've ever lived: your deepest sadness, your happiest memories, the culture you grew up in. All those things act as a filter over your eyes.
What you see as a great opportunity, your friend might see as a scary risk. What you find beautiful and comforting, another might find boring.

This simple fact means your perspective is not the only one. When you realize that the boundaries between your view and someone else's are just the edges of different life stories, conflict begins to quiet.

To truly live well, we must practice empathy. We must accept that another person's view has its own truth and validity, even if it makes no sense to us. Acknowledging this difference allows us to move beyond division and celebrate the beautiful variety of human sight.

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10/27/2025

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10/26/2025

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10/20/2025

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5001 California Avenue Ste 218
Bakersfield, CA
93309

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