The Soul Mate Specialist

01/25/2026

"The ultimate measure of intelligence is to be able to change one's mind."

Not black or white, not Grey either. Not red or blue, but

01/19/2026

12/07/2025

But this can be helped if the right choices are made by both partners. For help with this see me for coaching/consulting. Especially if out of state or see myself or any of my colleagues at if you are in Texas, especially the League City area. There is help available. Choose wisely my friends.

12/03/2025

Choose wisely... #

12/03/2025

Everything he said is 100% correct, the only thing I would add is that it is even harder when the toxicity is even worse than what He describes here.

When 1 or both parties are dealing with a deeper psychological issue like and or or / and when one is calling the other out and in an effort to avoid changing themselves, they point out something that is not true about the person who is calling them out. In other words, they put their sin on you. This is what we call "gas lighting" but a lot of people do not know what this term REALLY means or what it comes from (post to come on that).

In that case, when they bring the info. to you, you can't say "you know what babe, you are right" and they are refusing to say that as well, even though they should. This is what leads to a situation. It is toxic because, just like in medicine, if the negative energy can't leave the body the way it is supposed to; it stays in the system and starts causing illness until you are left with a medical condition, disease or disorder. The same thing occurs with mental and emotional issue as well it leads to death and destruction if the family system by killing peace, killing hop, killing presence and ultimately, killing love.

For help with relationship issues contact me for coaching and consulting especially if you are not in Texas, Texas residence, you can see me or any of my colleagues at for help with these and any other mental health issues. For spiritual healing, check me and my ministerial friends out at healing comes from multiple angles. The deeper the issue, the more angles/pillars that need to be addressed. Keep climbing my friends.

11/14/2025

😂🤣 smh...

11/13/2025

Scenarios Scenarios.

08/09/2025

Happy 7th Anniversary! Ups, Downs and in between. We are on this journey together! Still celebrating bouncing up and back! May this be the completion of an old phase and the start of our 8th year and a New beginning! Highs, lows, smiles and cries. You are my person. May we keep making sure that each year is better than before!

Love, Always! ❤️

04/06/2025

I would like to express my sincere appreciation for the cards, messages, texts and comments I received for my birthday. Your thoughtfulness is greatly appreciated. Love y'all 🙏🏾🙌🏾

02/23/2025

I have been loving all the posts from Philly that I have neglected to post my own! Everybody knows that I had been saying that Philly and KC was going to rematch, but this time we were going to win! I called it, I was consistent and and the got it done! 🎆🎇🏈🦅🏟🎇🎆

02/15/2025

We had some challenges tonight that would have caused us both to be upset. Tire flat, missed our reservation, but we both took it in stride and still had a good night. The has tried to stop our outings for a long time and it has cause stress and tension, but we have overcome and will continue to do so! Hope everyone had a wonderful Valentine's Day from our family to yours! ❤️💘💖

01/21/2025

Even in the midst of protesting and getting arrested and fighting for justice, Dr. King took time to protect his peace by being in community with the people. I admire MLKs ability and skill to do just this.

Encouragement for everyone to be able to protect their peace as they navigate the challenges of their purpose.