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Shiloh Counseling LLC

Dr. Clay Brigance is the founder, clinical director and lead counselor at Shiloh Counseling, LLC. Clay is also able to see couples.

Clay's passion in therapy is to join you on your life journey to finding wholeness again. Clay is a doctorate level counselor who is able to see pre-teens and teens age 10 and up, as well as adults. Clay is also uniquely qualified to do psychological evaluations for children age 6 to 17. With nearly 10 years of experience as a school psychologist in the public schools, Clay can provide an informat

ive evaluation for your child to help you find answers as well as guide you through the IEP process in plan language. However, Clay's ultimate passion is counseling individuals and couples who are navigating infertility and reproductive loss. Clay has become a leading researcher and therapist for this special population, being a featured speaker for the Institute of Reproductive Grief Care, The Crossing Church, and The American Psychological Association for how to counsel couples navigating infertility.

07/29/2025

Feeling overwhelmed or anxious?
Try this simple grounding tool therapists at Shiloh often share with clients - notice 5 things you can see, 4 things you can feel, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste.
This execise helps your nervous system settle and brings you back into the present moment. It’s one of many mindfulness tools we use to support emotional regulation and reduce anxiety.
🌿 You’re not alone, and you don’t have to figure it out alone.
💬 Have a go-to grounding practice that helps you reset? We’d love to hear it in the comments!
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

07/24/2025

If rest feels uncomfortable, you’re not broken. You’ve probably just had to hustle to survive.
Many of us have lived in go-mode for so long that our nervous systems don’t quite know what to do with stillness. But even small moments of rest can begin to shift us toward healing and make our work and relationships more sustainable in the long run.

🌿 What’s one small way you’ll invite rest into your day? Let us know in the comments.

07/22/2025

At Shiloh, we believe healing happens in relationship and our therapists are here to walk with you. Meet Matt, one of the wonderful clinicians here at Shiloh Counseling. With a deep commitment to thoughtful, supportive care, Matthew helps couples navigate challenges, rebuild connection, and create lasting change.

🗓️ Ready to take the next step? Visit our website or call today to schedule with Matt.

Teens don’t need to be “fixed” - they need to feel seen. When emotions run high, “calm down” can feel dismissive or even...

07/17/2025

07/15/2025

At Shiloh, we believe healing happens in relationship, and our therapists are here to walk with you. Meet Ginny, one of the clinicians here at Shiloh Counseling. She specializes in supporting adults and couples navigating infertility, grief, and relationship challenges. Ginny also provides fertility-related mental health assessments and is trained in the Gottman Method.

🗓️ Ready to take the next step? Visit our website or call today to schedule with Ginny.

07/10/2025

Teens don’t need to be “fixed” - they need to feel seen. When emotions run high, “calm down” can feel dismissive or even add fuel to the fire.

Here are 4 things to try instead, rooted in compassion, connection, and emotional regulation.
Whether you're a parent, caregiver, or educator, these tools can help turn conflict into conversation.

📌 Save this post for the next hard moment—and know you're not alone.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone’s experiences are unique, so what’s shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our feed.

07/08/2025

At Shiloh, we believe healing happens in relationship and our therapists are here to walk with you. Meet Kylie, one of the wonderful clinicians here at Shiloh Counseling. Kylie draws from her background as a school counselor to support pre-teens, teens, and adults, offering compassionate care for both everyday challenges and reproductive grief.

🗓️ Ready to take the next step? Visit our website or call today to schedule with Kylie.

07/03/2025

✨ Starting therapy can feel like a big step, but you don’t have to do it alone.

Whether it’s your very first session or you're coming back after a break, here’s what you can do to show up with intention, and how we show up for you.

From reading your paperwork to prepping a peaceful space, our team is already getting ready to support your growth, healing, and goals.

🧡 Tell us in the comments: What helps you feel grounded before a therapy session?

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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone’s experiences are unique, so what’s shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our feed.

07/02/2025

✨We have just a couple of spots remaining for this group!✨
This summer, Blair and Katie are leading Glow Up Girls, a 4-week support group designed just for teen girls to reflect, connect, and grow. 🌸

In this group, your teen will:
💬 Process emotions in a safe, supportive space
🤝 Build real connections with others
🌟 Gain confidence as they head into a new school year
Each week, we’ll look back at the past school year, stay grounded in the present, and set intentions for the future—all while helping girls discover how they best cope with the ups and downs of life.

Let this summer be a reset. A glow up. A chance to grow into who they’re becoming. 💖

📍This group kicks off soon - reach out today to learn more or get signed up!
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07/01/2025

At Shiloh, we believe healing happens in relationship, and our therapists are here to walk with you. Meet Missy, one of the wonderful clinicians here at Shiloh Counseling. She supports individuals, parents, kids, and teens in growing, connecting, and thriving, drawing on her background in special education and play therapy.

🗓️ Ready to take the next step? Visit our website or call today to schedule with Missy.
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06/26/2025

In moments of conflict, it’s natural to want to explain, defend, or prove your good intentions. But when your partner is hurting, what they often need most isn’t your defense—it’s your presence.
Your partner doesn’t need to hear your innocence.
They need to know their emotions matter.
They need to feel felt.
When in doubt, lead with care before correction.
🧡 Save this for the next hard conversation.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone’s experiences are unique, so what’s shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our feed.

06/24/2025

At Shiloh, we believe healing happens in relationship—and our therapists are here to walk with you. Meet Jeff, one of the excellent clinicians here at Shiloh Counseling. He helps teens, men, and athletes navigate anxiety, depression, and life’s challenges, by being relational, goal-oriented, and deeply committed to helping clients move forward.

🗓️ Ready to take the next step? Visit our website or call today to schedule with Jeff.

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St. Louis, MO

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+13142469126

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http://www.shilohcounselingllc.com/

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