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Shiloh Counseling LLC

Dr. Clay Brigance is the founder, clinical director and lead counselor at Shiloh Counseling, LLC. Clay is also able to see couples.

Clay's passion in therapy is to join you on your life journey to finding wholeness again. Clay is a doctorate level counselor who is able to see pre-teens and teens age 10 and up, as well as adults. Clay is also uniquely qualified to do psychological evaluations for children age 6 to 17. With nearly 10 years of experience as a school psychologist in the public schools, Clay can provide an informative evaluation for your child to help you find answers as well as guide you through the IEP process in plan language. However, Clay's ultimate passion is counseling individuals and couples who are navigating infertility and reproductive loss. Clay has become a leading researcher and therapist for this special population, being a featured speaker for the Institute of Reproductive Grief Care, The Crossing Church, and The American Psychological Association for how to counsel couples navigating infertility.

10/02/2025

October is Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month. 🕯️

Loss can come in many forms. Each experience carries its own heartbreak, and no two journeys look the same.

At Shiloh, we walk alongside individuals and families facing these tender griefs. You don’t have to carry it alone - your story matters, and your loss is real. Please feel free to reach out if you need support during this season.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

09/30/2025

“Just calm down.” If only it were that simple.

Anxiety isn’t a switch you can flip - it’s a nervous system response. Healing takes practice, tools, and often support. Compassion goes further than quick fixes.

✨ What’s one supportive phrase you wish people would say instead of “calm down”? Share it below 👇
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

09/25/2025

At Shiloh, we believe healing happens in relationship, and our therapists are here to walk with you. Meet Kaitlin, a fantastic intern therapist here at Shiloh Counseling. Kaitlin supports adolescents, young adults, and families with compassion and a holistic approach, helping them strengthen connection, build resilience, and navigate life’s challenges with hope.

🗓️ Ready to take the next step? Visit our website or call today to schedule with Kaitlin.

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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

09/23/2025

✨ Not every therapy win looks like a movie moment.

Sometimes it’s the quiet victories: pausing before you react, saying “no” without apologizing, letting yourself cry in session, or realizing your inner critic was really trying to protect you.
These are the moments that matter, the proof that healing is happening in real time. 🌱

👉 Which one resonates with you the most? Or which one would you celebrate if it happened this week? Drop it in the comments - we’d love to cheer you on. 🧡

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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

09/16/2025

Big love grows in the little things.

A shared smile, a kind word, a quick check-in at the end of a long day - these “micro-moments” of connection are what strengthen relationships over time.

Couples counseling can help you notice (and nurture) these small, powerful ways of showing up for each other.

👉 What’s one little thing that helps you feel connected in your relationship?
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

09/11/2025

✨ Sometimes the smallest shifts make the biggest difference. ✨
A “coping toolbox” doesn’t have to be complicated - just a few simple tools you can reach for in stressful moments.

💡 Try one of these today:
✔️ Drink some water
✔️ Stretch for 2 minutes
✔️ Write down one worry
These tiny resets can give your nervous system a chance to breathe.

👉 What’s one small tool in your coping toolbox? Share it below - we’d love to hear!
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

09/08/2025

We loved being part of STL Fertility's Walk of Hope yesterday! We had such a special day connecting with families and cheering on STL's parents-in-waiting. 🧡
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09/04/2025

💬 Your words matter. The way we talk to ourselves shapes how we see our worth and our possibilities. Harsh self-talk can feel automatic, but with practice, we can swap it for gentler, kinder words.

👉 Try picking one phrase you often say to yourself and rewrite it with compassion. What shift do you notice?

Share your favorite gentle reframe in the comments - we’d love to hear it!
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

09/02/2025

✨ Meet the team behind Shiloh Counseling ✨

We were so excited to have our team of clinicians together for this photo - what a joy to capture the heart of who we are. Each of us brings unique strengths and specialties, but we share one mission: walking alongside our clients with compassion, care, and hope.

A big thank you to for beautifully capturing this moment! 📸

We’re grateful for the work we get to do and the community we serve. Here’s to continuing the journey together.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

08/28/2025

✨ Sometimes we just need a reminder: you don’t need anyone else’s approval to take care of yourself.
✅ Rest when you’re tired.
✅ Say no when it’s too much.
✅ Ask for help when you need it.
Consider this your permission slip.
What’s one permission slip you need to give yourself today? Share it below - we’d love to hear it.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

08/26/2025

Reaching out doesn’t mean you’re failing - it means you’re choosing healing, connection, and growth.

If you’ve been waiting for “the right time” to ask for support, let this be your sign. Our team at Shiloh Counseling is here to walk alongside you.

Send us a message today to schedule an appointment or learn more about how counseling can help.
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Disclaimer: This content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Reading or engaging with this content does not constitute therapy, nor should it be considered professional advice or a substitute for therapy. Everyone's experiences are unqiue, so what's shared here may or may not resonate with you. For more details, please check out the Social Media Disclaimers post pinned to our IG feed.

Address

15480 Clayton Road Suite 103
Ballwin, MO
63011

Telephone

+13142469126

Website

http://www.shilohcounselingllc.com/

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