09/08/2023
I often hear, āI feel stuckā. This prompts me to start digging for a few things. One is grief.
Grief is a response to a loss or separation.
This could be loss of a dream, expectation, hope with an expired timeframe. You thought āITā would happen by now. You had an āappointedā time and now experience a ādisappointmentā. You have become separated from your Self-esteem.
Thereās a shift in your relationship with yourself because how you see yourself has changed. Yes, the feeling of low self-esteem.
This process of grieving is not linear but full of responses that feel like shock, denial, protesting, bargaining, and anger. Oh, the many expressions of anger!
Inward Anger-Depression
Outward Anger-Acting out/Attitude
BUT when you can identify that you are grieving you begin to move into understanding, coping, managing, and I love this part, REDESIGNING.
Explore your childhood dreams. Remember those conversations of āwhen I get older Iām going toā¦ā. Explore the āI will neverāsā that youāre actually doing.
The relationship you have with disappointment is so heavy when youāre grieving. It can bully you into adversely using self-preservation so you never move. Stuck!
Self awareness is essential to getting unstuck. If this is you acknowledge the āfeelingā for it served its purpose. It reminded you to dream a new dream, or redesign an old one.
Thatās Loving YourSelf 4Realš