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At Wilson Psychological Associates, we believe mental health care should be compassionate, professional, and accessible.

Counseling for children, adolescents, adults, and families, along with psychological testing and med management—all under one roof. WPA providers seek to provide support and practical feedback to help clients resolve current problems and long-standing patterns. With sensitivity and compassion, they help clients find solutions to a wide range of life challenges and psychological issues in a context of respect, compassion, safety, and confidentiality. Goals of the practice are to assist clients in eliminating problems of depression, anxiety, anger, and relationship conflicts and to give them the tools to resolve practical issues and to live fulfilling lives - independent of therapy. Using practical, effective, Christian-faith-affirming, research-based approaches, they draw on a variety of styles and techniques to incorporate what will be most helpful for each client. They are known to work with each client to help them build on their strengths to identify and achieve life goals. With a strong commitment to the Bartlesville and surrounding areas, WPA provides services to clients on sliding scale and pro bono bases as well.

01/08/2026

We are discontinuing the shelter protocol and resuming standard operations. Schedules will revert to their regular times.

01/02/2026

“Keeping the peace” sounds neutral.
Mature.
Responsible.

But in dysfunctional systems,
it is never evenly distributed.

The burden always lands on the most aware person.

The one who notices patterns.
The one who senses tension before it explodes.
The one who understands what’s really happening
but is told not to “make it worse.”

Peace, in these systems, doesn’t mean safety.
It means silence.

And silence is enforced —
not on the most harmful person,
but on the most perceptive one.

You were asked to soften your truth
because it made others uncomfortable.
You were told to let things go
because naming them threatened the illusion.
You were encouraged to be “the bigger person”
because you had the emotional range to carry the weight.

That’s the quiet violence of “keeping the peace.”

It doesn’t stop harm.
It redistributes it.

The anger doesn’t disappear —
it gets stored in your body.
The injustice doesn’t resolve —
it gets internalised.
The conflict doesn’t end —
it gets buried inside the person
who was capable enough to hold it.

This is why the most aware person
is often the most exhausted.
The most anxious.
The most dissociated.

They weren’t weak.
They were over-functioning inside an unfair system.

And here’s the part most people never admit:

“Keeping the peace” protects the system —
not the people inside it.

It protects abusers from consequence.
It protects enablers from discomfort.
It protects traditions from scrutiny.

And it sacrifices the one person
who refused to go numb.

When you finally stopped absorbing the tension,
stopped translating everyone else’s emotions,
stopped carrying what wasn’t yours —

you weren’t being difficult.
You were breaking an unspoken contract.

A contract that said:
You will manage the damage quietly
so we don’t have to change.

No wonder there was backlash.
No wonder you were framed as the problem.
No wonder distance followed.

Systems that rely on silence
always punish clarity.

So if you’re grieving relationships
after choosing honesty over harmony,
this isn’t a failure.

It’s evidence of awareness.

Peace that requires self-erasure
was never peace.
It was compliance.

And walking away from that
wasn’t abandonment.

It was self-respect catching up
to what you already knew.

—The Self

12/25/2025

🎄 Merry Christmas from Wilson Psychological Associates 🎄

The holidays can hold both joy and challenge, and we are grateful to support our community through every season. May this Christmas bring moments of rest, comfort, and connection.

Wishing you peace, grace, and hope as we look toward a new year together.

12/22/2025

💙 We are deeply honored to be named Best Counseling Center for 2025. 💙

Thank you to our patients, referral partners, and community members who placed their trust in Wilson Psychological Associates. Your support allows us to continue providing compassionate, high-quality mental health care to children, teens, adults, and families in our community.

We are grateful today and always.

From our hearts, thank you for believing in us.

— The Wilson Psychological Associates Team

12/09/2025

We’re Hiring! Psychiatric Medical Assistant

📍 Bartlesville, OK
🕒 No weekends or on call | M-TH 8-5
🏆 Voted Best Counseling Center in Bartlesville 2025

We are looking for a compassionate, organized Psychiatric Medical Assistant to join our team.

If you enjoy supporting patients, thrive in a fast-paced environment, and want to work with an incredible group of providers and staff, we’d love to meet you! Apply at 🔗 in bio.

12/09/2025

11/20/2025

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Kimberly Little, APRN! Thanks for all you do! We hope you have an amazing birthday and an amazing year!

11/17/2025

We want to wish a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Kristin Wilson, MA LPC-S. Kristin works diligently every day to care for her clients as well as our staff here at WPA. We know you all love her too! Please take a minute to share your wishes for an amazing year ahead.

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417 E Silas Street
Bartlesville, OK
74003

Telephone

+19183376050

Website

https://wilsonpsychological.com/employment-at-wpa/

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