08/15/2025
Emotions arenât just fleeting moments that disappear after theyâre felt. They have substance. Unprocessed emotions, especially the painful onesâlike fear, anger, sadness, and griefâdonât simply vanish. They get stored in our bodies.
You may have heard of the saying, 'The body keeps the score.' And itâs true. Every tension, every ache, every feeling of heaviness or tightness can tell a story of emotions we havenât fully processed.
Think about stress. When we experience stress over time, it often manifests physicallyâtight shoulders, clenched jaw, maybe even chronic headaches. But it goes deeper than that. Emotional trauma, even from childhood, can get lodged in the bodyâs tissues. Letâs consider where emotions tend to 'hide':
>Anger and frustration often show up in the neck, shoulders, and upper back. These are the areas that tense up when we feel the weight of the world.
>Sadness and grief tend to be stored in the chest and lungs, contributing to a feeling of tightness or heaviness in the heart center.
>Fear and anxiety lodge themselves in the gut, leading to digestive issues or a sense of being 'knotted up inside.'
>Shame and guilt can manifest in the pelvic region, causing discomfort or even chronic pain.
So, what can we do about it? How do we release these emotions that get trapped in our tissues, our muscles, our fascia? This is where somatic work and massage therapy come into play.
Somatic therapy is about reconnecting with your body, becoming aware of where tension, pain, or discomfort reside, and allowing those sensations to guide you toward healing. As a somatic practitioner, I help people explore what their bodies are holding onto and why. By working with the bodyâs natural intelligence, we can release emotions in a gentle, safe way.
Massage therapy is another powerful tool for emotional release. Through touch, we can coax the body into relaxing, which in turn allows the emotions that have been stored to rise to the surface. When you receive a massage, youâre not just relaxing your muscles; youâre giving your body permission to let go of the emotional burdens itâs been carrying.
In my practice, I often combine somatic work with trauma-informed massage therapy. Trauma leaves an imprint on the body, but it can also be released. By working with the bodyâs tissues and bringing awareness to where emotional pain is stored, we can create space for healing. We can shift from living in a state of tension and survival to a state of ease and well-being.
This work is about so much more than physical relaxation. Itâs about emotional liberation. đ