08/29/2025
You're not a difficult patient! You deserve to be heard and believed! â¤ď¸
Hereâs the thing: in medicine, being labeled âthat patientâ is real.
Sometimes itâs said with an eye roll in the exam room. Sometimes itâs written into your chart. And once itâs there, it can follow you from one doctor to the next. Itâs shorthand for: she asks too many questions, she pushes back, she wonât just go along.
But history shows us why this happens: womenâs pain has been dismissed for centuries. Weâve been told weâre âhysterical,â âemotional,â or ânoncompliant.â And so many of us have learned to censor ourselves to stay polite, apologetic, agreeable just to avoid the label.
Yet hereâs the truth: asking questions, saying no, or trusting your gut doesnât make you âdifficult.â It makes you discerning. It makes you informed. It makes you powerful.
As a physician and midwife, I can tell you this with certainty: women who advocate for themselves not only change their own health outcomes, they change the culture of care for all of us.
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