12/30/2025
69% of problems in a relationship will never get resolved. That isn’t a sign something is broken, it’s a sign you’re two different people.
In this video, Julie Gottman explains that many conflicts come from core traits, how you were raised, how you communicate, what you need to feel safe, and the pace at which you move through life.
Instead of trying to change each other, the work is learning to understand, navigate, and build alongside those differences.
Some things might never get fully solved, but they can become more livable when you learn how to talk about them.
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