07/24/2025
Word of caution: Recently I had a discussion about psychological terms which are misused in mainstream media/society, particularly as a way to insult or label another. I get worried when this happens, as it stigmatizes mental health or makes diagnoses shameful traits (slurs). To this I encourage doing research and choosing better terms. For example, if you feel someone is acting selfishly, they may not be a Narcissist. Maybe confront how their lack of understanding that their actions/choices negatively impact you may be more effective. Even with a pattern of behavior, they still may only be self-serving not have a Personality Disorder (which we should not shame). Another example, being legitimately disappointed, grieving, or sad verses Depression. The former are normal reactions, with the latter being a mental health issue. If you suspect someone is really struggling with mental health, please encourage them to seek a professional (Psychology Today is a good site to locate therapists/psychiatrists).