05/27/2026
"How do I support a friend who is grieving?"
It's one of the most loving questions we hear. The truth is, you don't need the right words β you just need to keep showing up.
A few things that help most:
π€ Say their loved one's name. Most grieving people are aching to hear it.
π€ Show up past the first two weeks. The flowers fade and the casseroles stop β that's often when the loneliness sets in.
π€ Skip "let me know if you need anything." Drop off coffee. Mow the lawn. Specific beats open-ended.
π€ Don't try to fix it. Grief isn't a problem to solve. Sitting with someone is the gift.
π€ Mark the dates. A simple "thinking of you today" on a birthday or anniversary means everything.
Grief doesn't end when the service does β and neither does our care.