MarRem Consulting

MarRem Consulting As an ADHD expert and consultant, I empower neurodivergent individuals to transform overwhelm into clarity with practical tools and real-life solutions.

Through workshops, coaching and resources, I help clients live a life they LOVE! Hi, Iโ€™m MarRem - your go-to neurodivergence expert! ๐Ÿง 

Adult ADHD diagnoses have risen dramatically in the last few years. My 35 years of experience in education, along with my own struggles with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, have shown me the importance of individualized learning. I understand firsthand how having the right tools and strategies makes a huge difference in working with your neurodiversity. The #1 thing thatโ€™s holding you back when you have ADHD or are Wired Differently is not getting the right kind of support. You need someone who knows how to break it down & tailor it to your unique learning style. Thatโ€™s why I spend my time helping bright, driven professionals like YOU who are โ€œwired differentlyโ€ find life-changing solutions to transform common challenges such as procrastination, impulsivity, time management, and more!

01/08/2026

3 days to go! ๐Ÿ’™ ๐Ÿ’™

If youโ€™ve been thinking,
โ€œI know I need supportโ€ฆ I just havenโ€™t done anything yet,โ€
this is your reminder that awareness is the first step action can come next.

From Frantic to Freedom is a live, experiential ADHD workshop created to help you move out of overwhelm and into clarity gently, at your own pace.

This isnโ€™t about fixing yourself.
Itโ€™s about learning how to support your nervous system and work with your ADHD brain.

โœจ ADHD-friendly
โœจ Interactive and practical
โœจ Real tools you can use right away
โœจ Multiple dates available

If you want 2026 to feel different, you donโ€™t have to wait for the perfect moment.

You can start here.

Sign up today โ€” link in the comments ๐Ÿ’™

01/07/2026

Do you want to start 2026 feeling calmer not frantic?

Youโ€™re not alone if you keep telling yourself,
โ€œIโ€™ll get to it next weekโ€ฆ next monthโ€ฆ next year.โ€

That loop is exhausting and itโ€™s not a willpower problem.
Itโ€™s an ADHD nervous system problem.
Thatโ€™s exactly why I created From Frantic to Freedom: an ADHD Workshop.

This isnโ€™t a lecture.
Itโ€™s experiential, engaging, and focused on real tools you can practice right away โ€” so you donโ€™t just understand your brainโ€ฆ you learn how to work with it.

โœจ There are 3 different dates to choose from
โœจ Experiential + interactive
โœจ ADHD-friendly support, not pressure

If 2026 is the year you stop surviving and start feeling supported
sign up today.

Link in comments down below! ๐Ÿ’™

๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐ž๐ฑ๐œ๐ข๐ญ๐ž๐ โ€ฆ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐š ๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ.Even after doing this work for decades, teaching ๐น๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘š ๐น๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐น๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘’๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘š ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘กโ„Ž ๐ด๐ท๐ป๐ท st...
01/05/2026

๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐ž๐ฑ๐œ๐ข๐ญ๐ž๐ โ€ฆ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐š ๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ.

Even after doing this work for decades, teaching ๐น๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘š ๐น๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐น๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘’๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘š ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘กโ„Ž ๐ด๐ท๐ป๐ท still matters deeply to me. Because I know how quietly exhausting life can feel when youโ€™re bright, capable, and always holding it together.

๐‘ป๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’Œ๐’”๐’‰๐’๐’‘ ๐’Š๐’” ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’‡๐’๐’๐’Œ๐’” ๐’˜๐’‰๐’:
โœ” Look competent on the outside
โœ” Care deeply
โœ” And still live with that constant feeling of being behind, forgetting something, or doing something wrong

If thatโ€™s YOU, ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’Œ๐’”๐’‰๐’๐’‘ ๐’˜๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’‰๐’†๐’๐’‘ ๐’š๐’๐’–:
โ€ข ๐‘€๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ก ๐‘“๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ of missing something
โ€ข ๐บ๐‘’๐‘ก ๐‘๐‘™๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ ๐‘œ๐‘› ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘ก๐‘ข๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘š๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘  this week
โ€ข ๐ถ๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘š ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฃ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘  ๐‘ ๐‘ฆ๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘š so your brain can think again
โ€ข ๐ถ๐‘œ๐‘š๐‘š๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘–๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘’ ๐‘š๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘’๐‘“๐‘“๐‘’๐‘๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘ฆ with the people you care about

๐Ÿ—“ ๐Ž๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ. ๐‘ช๐’‰๐’๐’๐’”๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’…๐’‚๐’•๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’Œ๐’” ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’–.
โœจ Sun, Jan 11 3 pm PT
โœจWed, Jan 14 8 am PT
โœจ Sat, Jan 24 10 am PT

๐Ÿ’ฌ ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ โ€œ๐‘๐„๐€๐ƒ๐˜โ€ and Iโ€™ll send you the details
(And yes โ€ฆ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข'๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘”๐‘’๐‘ก ๐‘Ž ๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘ก if you want it ๐Ÿฉท)

๐–๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐’๐จ๐ฅ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ž, ๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ-๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฅ๐ž.Tonight is the longest night of the year.   A ๐‘†๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘ƒ๐‘Ž๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘’.   A ๐ท๐‘’๐‘’๐‘ ๐ต๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘กโ„Ž.   ๐‘ผ๐’๐’๐’†๐’”๐’” โ€ฆ ๐’š๐’๐’– ...
12/22/2025

๐–๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐’๐จ๐ฅ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ž, ๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ-๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฅ๐ž.

Tonight is the longest night of the year.
A ๐‘†๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘ƒ๐‘Ž๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘’.
A ๐ท๐‘’๐‘’๐‘ ๐ต๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘กโ„Ž.
๐‘ผ๐’๐’๐’†๐’”๐’” โ€ฆ ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‰๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐‘จ๐‘ซ๐‘ฏ๐‘ซ.

Then itโ€™s 3 tabs open, 0 finishes, and maybe a candle if you remembered.

โœจ ๐‘†๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘†๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘‘. ๐‘†๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐ถ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘ . ๐‘จ๐‘ฉ๐‘บ๐‘ถ๐‘ณ๐‘ผ๐‘ป๐‘ฌ๐‘ณ๐’€!

๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ ๐๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง + ๐‡๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ ๐“๐ซ๐š๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ข๐œ = ๐‚๐ก๐š๐จ๐ฌ (๐’ƒ๐’–๐’• ๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’†โ€™๐’” ๐’˜๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’”๐’‚๐’—๐’†๐’… ๐’Ž๐’†)It was supposed to be a quick trip to an unexpected schoo...
12/16/2025

๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ ๐๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง + ๐‡๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ ๐“๐ซ๐š๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ข๐œ = ๐‚๐ก๐š๐จ๐ฌ (๐’ƒ๐’–๐’• ๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’†โ€™๐’” ๐’˜๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’”๐’‚๐’—๐’†๐’… ๐’Ž๐’†)

It was supposed to be a quick trip to an unexpected school meeting.
But I hit construction delays.
Gas was low.
Parking was a mess.
And ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’ was out โ€” schools, businesses, shoppers, traffic, all at once.

ADHD brains like mine?
We feel it all โ€” the sensory load, the interruptions, the sudden change of plans.

And I realized something.

๐Ÿ‘‰ I discovered the secret to getting through high-demand days with less overwhelm by letting go of โ€œthe most efficientโ€ and choosing what was ๐’Ž๐’๐’”๐’• ๐’”๐’–๐’‘๐’‘๐’๐’“๐’•๐’Š๐’—๐’† for my brain.

It became clear that simplifying my day ๐’๐’ ๐’‘๐’–๐’“๐’‘๐’๐’”๐’† gave me back my calm โ€” and my focus.

Thatโ€™s when I realized: itโ€™s ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘–๐‘ก ๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘”โ„Ž๐‘ก โ€” itโ€™s about doing what ๐’‚๐’„๐’•๐’–๐’‚๐’๐’๐’š ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’Œ๐’” ๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘–๐‘›.

So I got gas.
I skipped the veggie-chopping and ordered takeout.
And I made it through the day without losing myself.

Thatโ€™s the work I do now โ€” helping ๐‘จ๐‘ซ๐‘ฏ๐‘ซ ๐’ƒ๐’“๐’‚๐’Š๐’๐’” ๐’ƒ๐’–๐’Š๐’๐’… ๐’‚๐’“๐’๐’–๐’๐’… ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’Š๐’“ ๐’”๐’‘๐’‚๐’“๐’Œ, not perfection.

โœจ ๐–๐ก๐ข๐œ๐ก ๐ฆ๐ข๐œ๐ซ๐จ-๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ž๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐จ๐š๐ ๐ญ๐จ๐๐š๐ฒ?

๐Œ๐ฒ  #๐Ÿ ๐‡๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ ๐‡๐š๐œ๐ค ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ž๐ฎ๐ซ๐จ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐‘ช๐’๐’๐’”๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’๐’๐’๐’‘!๐‘ท๐’–๐’• ๐’Š๐’• ๐’‚๐’˜๐’‚๐’š!๐‘ญ๐’Š๐’๐’Š๐’”๐’‰ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ!๐‘Šโ„Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘ ๐‘˜, because the ADHD w...
12/12/2025

๐Œ๐ฒ #๐Ÿ ๐‡๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ ๐‡๐š๐œ๐ค ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ž๐ฎ๐ซ๐จ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ฌ

๐‘ช๐’๐’๐’”๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’๐’๐’๐’‘!
๐‘ท๐’–๐’• ๐’Š๐’• ๐’‚๐’˜๐’‚๐’š!
๐‘ญ๐’Š๐’๐’Š๐’”๐’‰ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ!

๐‘Šโ„Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘ ๐‘˜, because the ADHD way โ€ฆ
You get almost done and save the last part for later or ...
start a task, jump to another and another โ€” ๐‘ ๐‘ข๐‘‘๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘›๐‘™๐‘ฆ there are ๐‘“๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘๐‘’๐‘› ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘—๐‘’๐‘๐‘ก๐‘  and ๐๐ˆ๐‹๐„๐’ ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘’.

Instead of peace and simplicity โ€ฆ
Youโ€™ve got mounds of paper and holiday chaos.

(Though, letโ€™s be honest โ€” if you stacked those piles just right, you ๐’„๐’๐’–๐’๐’… call it a tree, slap a star on top, and ๐’—๐’Š๐’๐’๐’‚ฬ€ โ€ฆ no need to buy one!! ๐ŸŽ„

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฎ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ฌ๐ก๐ž๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ฉ?
Letโ€™s hear it ๐Ÿ‘‡

๐Ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐, ๐Ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ž๐, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ž๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐„๐๐ ๐ž!"๐ผ๐‘“ ๐ผ ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘›โ€™๐‘ก ๐‘ ๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘ฆ๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘”, ๐ผ ๐‘“๐‘’๐‘’๐‘™ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘˜๐‘’ ๐ผโ€™๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘™๐‘’๐‘ก ๐‘๐‘’๐‘œ๐‘๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘ค๐‘› โ€ฆ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘...
12/10/2025

๐Ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐, ๐Ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ž๐, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ž๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐„๐๐ ๐ž!

"๐ผ๐‘“ ๐ผ ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘›โ€™๐‘ก ๐‘ ๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘ฆ๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘”, ๐ผ ๐‘“๐‘’๐‘’๐‘™ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘˜๐‘’ ๐ผโ€™๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘™๐‘’๐‘ก ๐‘๐‘’๐‘œ๐‘๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘ค๐‘› โ€ฆ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐ผ ๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘‘๐‘›โ€™๐‘ก ๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ก ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘š๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘  ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘’๐‘–๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ.โ€
I didnโ€™t think; I just kept saying yes.

Until my body started whispering โ€ฆ then yelling.
Tight shoulders.
Short fuse.

That feeling โ€” Iโ€™m going to snap or melt down completely.

Iโ€™ve done that before.
Pushed too hard, lost it, and hated myself afterwards.

๐‘‡โ„Ž๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘š๐‘’, ๐ผ ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘–๐‘ก.
I thought about the ๐’‰๐’๐’๐’Š๐’…๐’‚๐’š๐’” and when they actually ๐’‡๐’†๐’๐’• ๐’ˆ๐’๐’๐’… โ€” the ones where I felt connected, breathed, laughed, and went home with a full heart instead of an empty tank.

So ๐ˆ ๐ฆ๐š๐๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ฐ ๐œ๐ก๐จ๐ข๐œ๐ž๐ฌ:
โœ… Add ๐‘ž๐‘ข๐‘–๐‘’๐‘ก ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘’๐‘  to my calendar.
โœ… Leave ๐‘ ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘ก๐‘ค๐‘’๐‘’๐‘› ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘  โ€” even 5 minutes alone in the car.
โœ… ๐‘†๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘›๐‘œ without over explaining.
โœ… ๐‘†๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘›๐‘’๐‘๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘š๐‘’.

Because if I donโ€™t, the season runs me.
And thatโ€™s not the holiday I want to remember.

What about you? ๐‘พ๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’ˆ๐’๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’•๐’ ๐’„๐’‰๐’๐’๐’”๐’†?

12/08/2025

The holiday season is just around the corner which means the calendar is about to start filling itself if weโ€™re not careful. And for ADHD or neurodivergent brains, this is where overwhelm can sneak in fast.

Itโ€™s not just the events themselvesโ€ฆ Itโ€™s the mental load that comes with them:
โœ” remembering dates
โœ” coordinating with others
โœ” navigating travel or traffic
โœ” figuring out what to bring
โœ” recovering afterward
โœ” trying to stay regulated in the middle of it all Most of my clients tell me the same thing every December:

โ€œI didnโ€™t choose to overscheduleโ€ฆ it just happened.โ€ And of course it did โ€” because holiday expectations, social pressure, and ADHD time-blindness all team up at once.

Here's one tip I do when the holiday season starts.

๐’๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐’๐ž๐ž ๐š ๐–๐š๐ฒ ๐Ž๐ฎ๐ญ โ€” ๐”๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ ๐–๐ž ๐…๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐Ž๐ง๐ž ๐“๐จ๐ ๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซAlex was ready to give up.Every morning felt like a disaster. Sh...
12/05/2025

๐’๐ก๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐’๐ž๐ž ๐š ๐–๐š๐ฒ ๐Ž๐ฎ๐ญ โ€” ๐”๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ ๐–๐ž ๐…๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐Ž๐ง๐ž ๐“๐จ๐ ๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ

Alex was ready to give up.

Every morning felt like a disaster. Sheโ€™d rush, panic, and break things -
shatter a mirror, slam the fridge too hard, throw the peanut butter jar.
She was always late. Always frustrated.

By the time she got to work, she felt ashamed and defeated.
Her boss was frustrated. Co-workers avoided her.

And Alex โ€ฆ
She started to believe maybe she just wasnโ€™t meant to have a job.
Maybe sheโ€™d end up homeless.

But we slowed it all down.
We tracked her mornings.
We got real about how long things ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘ก๐‘ข๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™๐‘ฆ take.
We created workarounds that made sense for how her brain works.
And she found the courage to ask for a consistent shift and a predictable day off.

Now?
She shows up on time. Smiling.
Her boss is noticing her effort.
And most importantly โ€” Alex feels proud of herself.

This is what happens when you ๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘œ๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ โ€œ๐‘“๐‘–๐‘ฅโ€ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘“ and instead ๐’ƒ๐’–๐’Š๐’๐’… ๐’‚ ๐’๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’‡๐’Š๐’•๐’” ๐’š๐’๐’–.

๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐Ÿ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐š๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ?

๐–๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ ๐Œ๐ž๐ž๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‡๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ, ๐‘ฐ๐’• ๐‘ช๐’‚๐’ ๐‘ฎ๐’†๐’• ๐‘ผ๐’ˆ๐’๐’šTrying to do ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’š๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ during the holidays left me exhausted and cranky.As...
12/02/2025

๐–๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ ๐Œ๐ž๐ž๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‡๐จ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ, ๐‘ฐ๐’• ๐‘ช๐’‚๐’ ๐‘ฎ๐’†๐’• ๐‘ผ๐’ˆ๐’๐’š

Trying to do ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’š๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ during the holidays left me exhausted and cranky.

As someone with ADHD, I tend to say ๐’š๐’†๐’” ๐’•๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’ the festive things โ€” decorating, parties, gifts, volunteering. But every year, Iโ€™d end up overwhelmed, overstimulated, and disconnected from the actual joy of the season.

The ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘ก ๐ผโ€™๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘‘ (and now teach my clients) is this:
โœจ ๐ƒ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐›๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ gives you more room to connect deeply โ€” with the people and the moments that actually matter.

Recently, I worked with a family of four to help them look at all December. Together, they chose just 2โ€“3 activities each week that really lit them up. We also blocked off times for them to bake cookies, decorate the tree, and a few other slots for special family only activities. It was amazing the relief they each expressed.

๐‘‡โ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘ข๐‘™๐‘ก?
๐‘ณ๐’†๐’”๐’” ๐‘บ๐’•๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’”, ๐‘ด๐’๐’“๐’† ๐‘ด๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’Š๐’„!

โ„๏ธ Whatโ€™s one thing youโ€™re ready to let go of this holiday season?
So you can feel more joy!

๐ˆ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ ๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐จ๐ง ๐“๐ก๐š๐ง๐ค๐ฌ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ž ... ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ˆ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐š ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ ๐›๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง.Everything felt loud โ€” the...
11/27/2025

๐ˆ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ ๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐จ๐ง ๐“๐ก๐š๐ง๐ค๐ฌ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ž ... ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ˆ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐š ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ ๐›๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง.

Everything felt loud โ€” the expectations, the pressure, the constant โ€œgo-go-go.โ€
And I kept thinking: I should be doing more. I should be feeling more grateful.
But instead, I paused โ€” just for a moment โ€” and asked myself:
โ€œ๐‘พ๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’‚๐’Ž ๐‘ฐ ๐’ˆ๐’“๐’‚๐’•๐’†๐’‡๐’–๐’ ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’•๐’๐’…๐’‚๐’š?โ€

Not a list.
Not a journal prompt.
Just one honest moment.

And to my surprise, my nervous system softened.
Not because life was perfect โ€” but because I let one good thing matter.

โœจ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’Š๐’” ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’“๐’†๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’†๐’“:
You donโ€™t need endless gratitude.
Just one moment of pause.

๐‡๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ ๐š ๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ž ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐›๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง?
๐ˆโ€™๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ โ€” ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ ๐จ-๐ญ๐จ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฉ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ?

๐–๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ-๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ค ๐ข๐ฌ ๐›๐ซ๐ฎ๐ญ๐š๐ฅ โ€ฆ ๐ƒ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ?As we wrapped our final session of the ๐น๐‘–๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Œ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐ด๐ท๐ป๐ท ๐น๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ค 4-๐‘€๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘กโ„Ž ๐‘ƒ๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘”๐‘Ÿ...
11/25/2025

๐–๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ-๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ค ๐ข๐ฌ ๐›๐ซ๐ฎ๐ญ๐š๐ฅ โ€ฆ ๐ƒ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ?

As we wrapped our final session of the ๐น๐‘–๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Œ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐ด๐ท๐ป๐ท ๐น๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ค 4-๐‘€๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘กโ„Ž ๐‘ƒ๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘”๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘š last night, I was deeply moved.

This group was different. Everyone in the group was grappling with intense, unrelenting negative self-talk. The kind that makes it hard to show up. The kind that convinces you you're too broken, too far gone, no one wants you.

I reached out to a colleague to get ideas to adapt it to EFT tapping. Everyone agreed weโ€™d do this during one of our groups - and when we did things shifted:
"๐ธ๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘› ๐‘กh๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘”h ๐ผโ€™๐‘š h๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘”๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘“-๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘˜ ๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘“๐‘’๐‘’๐‘™๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘š๐‘œ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘ฃ๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘‘, ๐ผ ๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘’๐‘๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘š๐‘๐‘™๐‘’๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘๐‘’๐‘๐‘ก ๐‘š๐‘ฆ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘“ ๐‘—๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘ก ๐‘Ž๐‘  ๐ผ ๐‘Ž๐‘š.โ€

And then last night I heard โ€ฆ
"๐“๐ก๐š๐ง๐ค ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฆ๐ž. ๐ˆ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ฅ๐ž. ๐๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฎ๐ฉ, ๐ˆ ๐ฆ๐š๐๐ž ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ ๐š๐ฏ๐š๐ข๐ฅ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž๐ง. ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ง๐จ ๐ข๐๐ž๐š ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฏ๐š๐ฅ๐ฎ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ž.โ€

It got quiet โ€ฆ it was deep
He was showing up raw and vulnerable, so honest -
we were all deeply touched โ€ฆ and honored.

We don't heal in isolation. ๐‘พ๐’† ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’ ๐’Š๐’ ๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’Ž๐’–๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’š, ๐’Š๐’ ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’˜๐’Š๐’•๐’๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’†๐’…, ๐’Š๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’๐’๐’˜๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’—๐’†๐’” ๐’•๐’ ๐’ƒ๐’† ๐’”๐’†๐’†๐’ โ€ฆ even when itโ€™s messy.

This Thanksgiving, I'm deeply grateful for this brave group. For their honesty. Their resilience. Their willingness to show up.

If youโ€™re reading this and youโ€™ve been feeling invisible โ€” I hope you know:
๐‘Œ๐‘œ๐‘ขโ€™๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’! ๐ด๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘’๐‘› ๐‘ก๐‘œ๐‘œ!

๐Ÿ‘‰ Just curious: ๐‘พ๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’‰๐’†๐’๐’‘๐’” ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‡๐’†๐’†๐’ ๐’”๐’†๐’†๐’ - ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’ ๐’˜๐’‰๐’†๐’ ๐’Š๐’•โ€™๐’” ๐’‰๐’‚๐’“๐’… ๐’•๐’ ๐’”๐’‰๐’๐’˜ ๐’–๐’‘?

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