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At Bill Merritt Funeral Service, a funeral home in Bethany, Oklahoma, we draw inspiration from life to create personalized memorial celebrations that best reflect an individual.

01/28/2026

When You’re Grieving a Parent

Whether your loss is recent or happened long ago, grieving a parent can stir deep, lasting emotions. It’s the kind of grief that may soften over time—but never fully disappears. It lives in the moments you wish you could call them, in the recipes they used to make, in the way you still catch yourself hearing their voice.

Losing a parent often reshapes how we see the world. It can feel like losing a piece of your foundation—your first home, your lifelong guide, your biggest cheerleader. That absence can feel especially heavy during life’s milestones, holidays, and special seasons.

There’s no “right” way to grieve, and no timeline for missing someone who shaped your life. However you’re carrying that love and loss today, know this: you are not alone. And your feelings are always welcome here.

01/23/2026

💛 Grief and Self-Care Can Coexist

When you’re grieving, even the simplest things can feel overwhelming. But self-care doesn’t have to be big or bold—it can be quiet, intentional, and deeply kind.

Taking care of your body and spirit while grieving isn’t about “moving on.” It’s about finding small ways to support yourself as you carry your loss. A few gentle ideas:

Take a slow walk without your phone.

Write in your journal.

Listen to music that soothes you.

Say no to things that feel too heavy.

Enjoy a favorite drink or snack.

Give yourself permission to rest, even if others don’t understand.

Grief is hard work. The way you care for yourself through it matters. You deserve gentleness in this season—whatever that looks like for you.

01/22/2026

Planning With Peace, Not Pressure

Preplanning isn’t about urgency—it’s about care. It’s a quiet way of saying, “I want to ease this burden for the people I love.” It’s not a checklist to rush through, but a meaningful way to reflect on your story, your values, and how you want to be remembered.

Taking even one step—writing down a wish, starting a conversation—can bring a deep sense of peace. Not just for the future, but for today.

Whenever you’re ready, we’re here to walk with you—gently and without pressure.

01/19/2026

“Only in the darkness can you see the stars.” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

On this important day of reflection, we remember the quiet strength of compassion, the power of peace, and the light that rises through loss and struggle.

Dr. King’s legacy reminds us that even in our hardest seasons, hope can shine through—and that love, dignity, and justice are things we carry forward not just in words, but in how we care for one another.

May today be a moment of gratitude, remembrance, and gentle inspiration.

01/16/2026

A Year of Firsts Can Feel Heavy Before It Even Begins

If you’ve recently lost someone, the year ahead may feel overwhelming. Birthdays, holidays, anniversaries—all those “firsts” without them can stir up deep, unexpected emotions.

While we can’t plan away grief, we can prepare for it with care. A few gentle ideas:

Mark important dates on your calendar with space for rest.

Ask a trusted friend to check in around tender milestones.

Create small rituals—like lighting a candle or writing a note.

Give yourself permission to say “no” when things feel too heavy.

You’re not alone in this year of firsts. We’re holding space for your heart, your healing, and your story.

01/14/2026

“Exceptional care and compassion during an incredibly difficult time.”

When a family entrusts us with a loved one’s service, we don’t take that responsibility lightly. We walk beside them—quietly, respectfully, and with care in every detail.

Angela recently shared: “The staff was professional, patient, and attentive, ensuring every detail was handled with dignity and respect. Their guidance and support brought comfort and peace to our family.”

These words mean so much, because they reflect what we strive to offer every family we serve.

To Angela and so many others—we’re truly grateful for your trust. We’re here when you need us, always with compassion.

01/09/2026

“What we have once enjoyed deeply, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” — Helen Keller

As a new year begins, it’s okay to carry both hope and heartache. The love we’ve known doesn’t disappear with time—it stays with us, shaping how we grow, how we remember, and how we begin again.

If you’re stepping into the new year with grief, know this: beginnings and remembrance can exist side by side. You’re allowed to honor the past while still gently moving forward.

01/06/2026

Surviving the New Year Is Enough

As the world rushes into resolutions and fresh starts, you may find yourself just trying to breathe. If you’re grieving, you don’t need a list of goals. You don’t need to move on. You don’t need to be “better.”

You’re already doing something brave—carrying love, loss, and memory into another year. That’s more than enough.

However you show up this season—with tears, quiet strength, or one deep breath at a time—you’re not alone. We see you, and we think you’re doing great.

01/02/2026

🕊️ Not Every Goal Needs to Be Exciting—Some Can Just Bring Peace

As we step into a new year, many people are thinking about what matters most. And we think that should include: family, legacy, and easing the future burdens for those we love.

Estate and end-of-life planning isn’t exciting, but it can bring peace. It isn’t about expecting the worst, but about offering clarity, comfort, and a lasting act of love. If planning is on your heart - and on your 2026 Goals list - this year, here’s a gentle place to begin:

✅ Write down your wishes for your final arrangements.

✅ Create or review your will and/or living trust.

✅ Choose a healthcare proxy and power of attorney.

✅ Organize important documents (titles, accounts, passwords).

✅ Have a conversation with someone you trust.

✅ Consider pre-planning your service or memorial preferences.

✅ Share where your documents are kept.

You don’t have to do it all at once—just one step at a time, maybe just one month at a time. And, if you’d like a guide to help, we’re always here.

12/31/2025

A New Year, A Gentle Step Forward

New Year’s Eve can stir up so much—memories of those we miss, gratitude for those still near, and hope for what’s yet to come. So, it’s okay if you’re entering the new year carrying both joy and sorrow.

Grief doesn’t follow the calendar, but neither does love. It lives in the stories we tell, the traditions we keep, and the quiet moments that remind us: they are still with us.

However you’re ending 2025, we hope you feel surrounded by care, comfort, and the courage to begin again—one gentle step at a time.

12/25/2025

🎄 May Your Christmas Be Filled With Light, Love, and Gentle Memories

For many, Christmas is a time of warmth and togetherness—but it can also hold quiet moments of missing someone who should be here.

Whether your day is filled with laughter, reflection, or something in between, we hope you feel surrounded by love—the kind that lingers in memories, traditions, and the people who walk beside you.

From all of us at Dignity Memorial, we wish you peace, comfort, and a meaningful Christmas.

12/23/2025

📖 A Legacy Is More Than a Plan – It’s a Story

When people think about end-of-life planning, they often picture paperwork and decisions. But your legacy is so much more than that—it’s your story. The music that moved you, the meals you loved, the people you held close.

Planning ahead means you get to help shape how you’ll be remembered. It’s a chance to share your values, your memories, and the parts of your life you want your loved ones to carry forward.

Taking time to reflect on your story can be a meaningful gift to yourself and those who love you. A Legacy Journal is one way you can do it. You can start with one simple question:

“What do I hope my family remembers most about me?”

Your words don’t have to be perfect. They just have to be yours. If you’ve ever thought about preserving your story, we’re here to help guide you—gently and without pressure.

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6201 Northwest 39th Expressway
Bethany, OK
73008

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https://www.dignitymemorial.com/funeral-homes/bethany-ok/bill-merritt-funeral-service/4850

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