03/03/2026
Here are some cuddle therapy hills I will absolutely stand on.
Not because it's trendy. Or because it's soft, but because I see this play out IRL with humans every single week.
Many of us think:
I'm too much
I'm bad at intimacy
I don't know what I want
Why do I still feel lonely
And almost every time it is not a character flaw but our nervous system that adapted to survive.
When touches slow, consent is clear, you're actually allowed to change your mind, and your needs matter, just as the other person's, connection stops feeling like pressure and starts feelin like relief.
That's the difference between performative closeness and safe intimacy, and yes, I will happily die on that hill.