11/20/2025
Growth doesn’t come from comfort. It happens when you take steps toward what matters, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Mixed emotions are completely normal — joy and fear, excitement and worry, calm and overwhelm can all exist at the same time. You don’t have to pick a “right” feeling. You can let all your feelings coexist without trying to fix or judge them. This is called dialectics — the ability to hold two truths at once, like feeling anxious and safe, or excited and nervous together.
Anxiety, OCD, and uncertainty often make us feel like we need to be ready or in control before we act. But that’s just a story the mind tells. You don’t have to feel fully prepared to take the next step.
Being willing to move toward what matters, even when discomfort is present, is what allows growth to happen. It’s about tolerating uncertainty, letting go of the need to control, and noticing that feelings can come and go without needing to be solved.
Returning to beginner’s mind can help — staying curious, open, and flexible, even when the path feels unfamiliar. Discomfort doesn’t mean something is wrong. Often, it’s a signal that learning and growth are happening, even if it doesn’t feel that way in the moment.