12/10/2025
๐ทThis topic came up in a therapy session today and it highlights a very common conundrum for parentified Adult Children.
๐ทWhen does the cost of loyalty to our dysfunctional family systems become so high that it negatively impacts our mental health, our lives, our futures, and our happiness levels?
๐ทls it okay to gradually set boundaries, take some space, and start to source our self-esteem and self-love from within? (the answer is yes! ๐ฉท)
๐ทFor more help on individuating from your difficult family of origin, I highly recommend the book โLeaving Homeโ by psychologist David Celani PhD ๐
xoxo,
Dr. Ambardar ๐ค