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04/26/2026

This is something I tell everyone male or female entering the dating pool post-divorce - if they say their ex is crazy - end the date during the appetizers! 🚩 🚩

04/21/2026

If you’re a divorced parent, this might hit a nerve—but it’s something that needs to be said.
Your child should never feel like they have to choose between you at their own events.
From sports games to school concerts, kids deserve to celebrate with both parents—without tension, avoidance, or awkwardness getting in the way. In my latest blog, I talk about why learning to share space isn’t optional… it’s essential.
👉 Read more and let’s start doing better for our kids.
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A lot of divorced parents don’t seem to understand that they are going to need to be civil to each other at events. I know it sounds basic, and a no-brainer, but too many divorced parents can’t share space at the important events in their children’s lives.

02/17/2026

Honored to collaborate again with Ravit Rose 🌹 Everything Divorce on this newest article "How to Help Your Kids Adjust to Two Homes Without Stress or Anxiety"!

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02/02/2026

Email is where Co-Parenting either dies or heals. Your tone with your Co-Parent is how your child experiences safety. My latest blog breaks down what works—and what doesn’t!

If Co-Parenting is to be successful, then both parents need to commit to communicating in a civil manner. This includes email! I’ve seen, time and again, the way co-parents email each other with ideas for their children—whether therapy or extracurricular activities or something else—it’s not...

12/19/2025

12/11/2025

A common misunderstanding about Co-Parenting is that people believe they have to "get permission" or they can "veto" what the other parent wants to do with the children. Check out my latest blog to find out what joint legal custody really means, how it works, and best practices in healthy Co-Parenting!

There is a lot of misunderstanding about what joint legal custody actually means!  I’ve heard people say, “We have 70-30 parenting time, so therefore I get 70% of the say over decisions for our children.”  That’s not true.  Or they’ll say, “I have 50/50, so the other parent can’t do...

12/02/2025

Learning to Co-Parent in two homes is just like learning to parent - it takes time and patience! Check out my latest article for iroozedivorce.com on the top 10 mistakes parents make post-divorce and how to avoid them!

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10/31/2025

A narcissist’s timeline:
Love bomb. Control. Destroy. Play victim. Call you crazy. Tell everyone they tried their best.

This is the pattern they follow almost like clockwork, and it’s exhausting because it feels personal, like it’s about you — but it’s really never about you. At first, they sweep you off your feet with charm, attention, and grand gestures. You feel seen, adored, and like you’ve finally found someone who understands you. They make everything feel effortless, like you’re the only person in the world that matters.

Then slowly, almost imperceptibly, control creeps in. They decide what’s acceptable, who you can trust, and even how you feel about yourself. Gaslighting becomes the norm: your emotions are wrong, your perceptions are skewed, and your reality is questioned. Every kind thought you have about yourself starts to erode under their manipulations.

Once they’ve isolated your sense of self and dependency has grown, the destruction begins. They criticize, belittle, and push your boundaries until you’re emotionally drained. And when you start to resist, when you finally set a boundary, they flip the story. Suddenly, they are the victim. You are “too sensitive,” “overreacting,” “crazy,” or “ungrateful.” Friends, family, and colleagues are slowly drawn into their narrative.

Finally, when everything is said and done, they make sure the world sees them as the one who “tried their best.” The heartbreak, confusion, and trauma you experience are invisible to everyone else. They are experts at crafting a public image of innocence and effort while leaving destruction in their wake.

This isn’t love. It’s a calculated cycle of charm, control, and manipulation designed to make you doubt your own reality while they maintain power and a spotless reputation. And the scariest part? They repeat it over and over, to anyone who falls into their orbit.

09/22/2025

As a mother of three boys, this was my favorite article to write and is so important for mothers and fathers to avoid relationship pitfalls with their sons post-divorce - hoping it will help some of you!

09/09/2025

This picture explains it all…