Tan Alexander - Pre Arrangement Advisor

09/24/2025

My prayers and condolences to the Johnson family and all of those who have experienced loss due to battles with mental health .

Mental health is real and it does not discriminate -please check on those that you love and care about . Sometimes there are no signs or indications but here are just a few subtle things to make note of that could go unnoticed but may signal a quiet cry for help

✅ sudden shift from frustration to calm
✅ the phrase “I’m just tired” the context is key
✅ mood changes - overly affectionate or suddenly distant
✅ deflecting - refusing to talk about themselves
✅ over extended - constantly stressed
✅ extreme emotional highs and lows
✅quiet withdrawal- slowly pulling away from connections

What can you do to help someone you love - ( seek a professional- these are just my personal thoughts) You also have to consider the strength of the relationship

☀️be observant- don’t diagnose
☀️initiate spending time with them - give them space to open up when they are ready
☀️redirect the focus to them if you see them deflecting
☀️lighten their load
☀️offer to seek professional help together
☀️show love and compassion
☀️acknowledge changes without judgement

We all need someone . Life can be complex. We are stronger together 🙏🏾

09/23/2025

✅what if insurance it’s not enough
✅ will your family know what to do
✅ are you over insured but unprotected
It’s time to have a conversation about insurance and pre-arrangements and how they work best together.

09/18/2025

I have worked in the sales and service industry for over 25 years. As a licensed and certified Prearrangement advisor I have had the privilege of serving many families.

I provide information and support ahead of time to help them make decisions that are best for them and those that they would leave behind . Our plans are designed to work to provide services that you will need in a manner that is best for you.

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01/25/2024

There are 4 simple steps required to make certain your final arrangements are complete

Do you know what they are?

08/05/2023