
21/07/2025
‘Let go’
One of the most powerfully paradoxical birth affirmations there is and also the mantra of this wee edible flower that has come and gone from the land but is still present in our syrups, teas, salves, etc. Violets are a meditative reminder of the oft times simple, but tenacious work of interconnectedness. When it doesn’t make sense, when fears born from past experience try to inform our present, when we’re scared because it feels all too vulnerable, Violets whisper, “It’s ok. Trust and dare to have faith.”
Violet is cooling and moistening to the body; topically it promotes wound healing. It also plays well with others and is synergistic with herbs that amplify its inherent qualities. Its petals and specifically its leaves are heart-shaped, which aligns with an Andrea Gibson (presenté!) poem I read this week called Royal Heart. Here is an excerpt that gives Violet energy—
“…you can choose to bury your past
in the garden
beside the tulips
water it
until it’s so alive
it lets go
and you belong to yourself
again
When you belong to yourself again
Remember forgiveness
is not a tidy grave
It is a ready loyal knight kneeling before your royal heart
Call in your royal heart
Tell it bravery cannot be measured by a lack of fear
It takes guts to tremble
It takes so much tremble to love…”
This embroidery was for a birth giver who fought hard to let go, and then she did. My goodness; I’ll never forget the power of that. Then she named her baby Violet.