03/09/2026
“On July 14, 2025, I passed out at home. I never knew I was sick or anything. I thought I was healthy. I had never really gone to the doctor much, but when I finally did, they told me I had a preexisting condition called IgA nephropathy. From how they explained it, it is more of a genetic thing.
I ended up in the hospital for ten days while they figured everything out. They did a biopsy and found that my kidneys were about 80 percent failed. It was a shock. I was put on dialysis while I was still in the hospital, and that is when I started sharing my story on Facebook. I made a page, and my wife, Brittany, did most of the posting and we shared everything far and wide.
From the day I was diagnosed to the day of my surgery, it was only 105 days. I had my transplant surgery on October 27, and now I am about four months out. I feel great. There were some aftereffects, of course. The autoimmune medicines make it easier for me to get sick, but overall, I feel amazing.
My donor was my aunt, a living donor. Without her, I could have been waiting five to ten years on the list. What she did for me is something I will never forget.
To people who are hesitant about organ donation, I would say this: if you are thinking about being a living donor, reach out to the organizations that handle it. They will be very thorough. It is not something where you just sign a paper and go through with it. They will test you, teach you, and make sure you are healthy and ready. They only move forward if it is safe for both sides.
Before all this, I had heard of organ donation but never gave it much thought. I figured that when I died, if I had anything left to give, I would be willing. But now, after going through this, I am an advocate. I encourage people to register and be open to giving the gift of life if they can.
My faith is what carried me through it all. Even when my wife, my mom, and my family were worried, I kept my faith in Jesus Christ. No matter how bad the news got, I never lost that faith. Not one day was I shaken. That faith kept me strong and helped me get through everything.”
—Roman