
09/01/2025
I remember when I was 46 and deep in the perimenopause trenches.
And I mean…. deep.
Looking back, there are SO many things I wish my 30-something-year-old self knew on how to prepare for this chapter of life. If I could go back in time, here’s what I’d tell my younger self on how to prepare for this journey…
First thing - START TRACKING EVERYTHING NOW! Periods, mood swings, energy levels, literally everything. I wish I had data from my 30s to compare to what was happening at 46, and even now as I enter menopause.
Second thing - To get my hormone levels tested while still in my 30’s.
Most doctors won’t test you until you’re already suffering. Most doctors also won’t talk about how common it is for women to enter perimenopause in their 30’s.
Third thing - “Normal” labs does not mean optimal. 90% of doctors will tell you everything is fine when it isn’t - just because your labs are “within range.”
Fourth thing - I would tell myself to not be afraid of starting bioidentical hormones (especially non-synthetic). I would start BHRT the moment I noticed my hormones starting to decline instead of suffering through the symptoms of declining estrogen: saggy skin, wrinkles, low libdo, no s*x drive, weight gain…and the list goes on.
Lastly - I would remind myself that this chapter of life could be an incredible one where I look and feel my best, and that I don’t need to suffer through the symptoms of perimenopause. I would have told myself to start bioidentical hormones the moment I noticed things shifting.
Ladies in perimenopause, what would you tell your younger self? Share below.
And if you’re thinking about starting bioidentical hormones but have been on the fence for some time, I invite you to book a free 20-minute call with me to discuss how they can benefit declining hormones and what we can do to support you on your perimenopausal journey.
Comment “BHRT” below, and I’ll send you a DM with info on how to book a call.
💜Farah