Bixby- South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory

11/24/2025

Losing someone hurts, and it can be even harder for kids who don’t fully understand what’s happening. They may act out, go quiet, or ask tough questions. The best thing you can do is be honest and let them know it’s okay to feel sad or angry. Talking about the person who died, sharing memories, and spending time together can help them heal. There are also great local programs like Saint Francis Hospice and Kaleidoscope Grief Support that help kids in Tulsa and Bixby work through loss. Bixby Funeral Service can help families find these resources and get the extra support they need.
Find local grief support for your family: [link]

11/21/2025

Grief can feel heavy, and it often takes both emotional and physical energy to get through each day. Remember to care for your body as much as your heart. Try to eat well, move your body, and get enough rest. Keeping a simple routine can also help you feel a little more grounded when life feels uncertain. Be gentle with yourself. There’s no right or wrong way to grieve. Some days will be harder than others, and that’s normal. You don’t have to do it alone. Talking to a counselor or joining a grief group can make a real difference.

Find ways to nurture your well-being during grief: https://www.bixbyfuneralservice.com/resources/the-importance-of-self-care-while-grieving-nurturing-your-well-being

11/20/2025

Read the obituary of Michael Elihue Throneberry from Bixby, OK. Leave your condolences and send flowers to the family to show you care.

11/20/2025

Every detail matters because every life matters.
At Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service we honor the story of your loved one.

11/19/2025

It’s never too late to share your sympathy. If you didn’t reach out when someone lost a loved one, don’t let that stop you from doing it now. Grief lasts far longer than most people realize, and kind words are welcome at any time. You can simply say, “I’ve been thinking about you,” or “I’m sorry I didn’t reach out sooner.” Keep it honest and heartfelt. Send a note, make a call, or drop by with coffee if that feels right. What matters most is letting them know you care. A small act of kindness can bring real comfort, even months later.

Read more about how to reach out with care: https://www.bixbyfuneralservice.com/resources/expressing-sympathy-after-time-has-passed-is-it-too-late

11/19/2025

Share Memories and Support the Family.

11/19/2025

Tomorrow we will gather in the beautiful chapel of South Tulsa Baptist Church to honor Norman Morton.

Share Memories and Support the Family.

11/17/2025

If you’ve lost someone and haven’t cried, please know that you’re not alone and nothing is wrong with you. Sometimes the loss doesn’t feel real yet, or your body and mind protect you by going numb for a while. Other times, emotions are so strong that holding back tears feels safer. Some people just grieve in different ways. You might feel tired, disconnected, or restless instead of tearful. Grief looks different for everyone, and it’s okay if your tears come later—or not at all. What matters most is allowing yourself time, space, and kindness as you heal. If you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed, talking with a counselor or joining a grief group can help.

Visit our resources page for more guidance and support: https://www.bixbyfuneralservice.com/resources/

11/13/2025

“Much kindness was shown to us during our loss. Appreciate the caring people who work at the funeral home.”
– Dotti Westerberg, ★★★★★

We’re grateful for the kind words and trust from families like Dotti’s. At Bixby Funeral Service, we’re honored to care for families with compassion and respect during life’s most difficult moments.

Learn more about our services: https://www.bixbyfuneralservice.com/

11/11/2025

Sometimes life gets busy, and before you know it, weeks or even months have passed since someone you know lost a loved one. You might wonder if it’s too late to say something. The truth is, it’s never too late to show you care. Grief doesn’t end after the funeral. People still need kindness, comfort, and reminders that they’re not alone. A simple message like “I’ve been thinking of you” or “I’m sorry I didn’t reach out sooner” can mean a lot. What matters most is your sincerity and the care behind your words. Taking a moment to reach out can bring comfort, even long after the loss.
Learn more about offering support after time has passed: https://www.bixbyfuneralservice.com/resources/expressing-sympathy-after-time-has-passed-is-it-too-late

11/11/2025

Shirlene’s service will be professionally live-streamed 2 PM Tuesday from the Rivercrest Chapel.

Share Memories and Support the Family.

11/07/2025

Losing someone you love is one of the hardest things you’ll ever go through. Grief can leave you feeling tired, sad, and unsure how to keep going. That’s why taking care of yourself is so important. It’s not selfish—it’s part of healing. Eat healthy meals, get some rest, and spend time outdoors when you can. Talk to someone who listens without judgment, whether it’s a friend, family member, or support group. Even small acts of self-care, like taking a walk or reading a favorite book, can bring comfort. Give yourself grace and patience as you move through grief. Healing takes time, and that’s okay.

Learn more about caring for yourself while grieving: [https://www.bixbyfuneralservice.com/resources/the-importance-of-self-care-while-grieving-nurturing-your-well-being