06/06/2020
Talking to our kids about racism can be very challenging. You might think: but if I talk about it without them asking, does that mean I am actually bringing their attention to it? If I do not even talk about it, wouldn’t it be better? Wouldn’t it teach them that there is no difference between people?
Oh how I wish it was that simple! Sadly, not talking about it will not make it go away!
First thing to realize here is : if you are asking yourself the question above, you are privileged. You have a “choice” to not talk about it. It is not your fault that you are privileged but I think it is important to acknowledge that fact.
The topic of racism is difficult to approach. As a pediatrician and a mom, I find sometimes when I am at a loss of words, books come in very handy with my kids.
This week, at our house, we read “Something Happened in our town”. (See link below). It helped me talk to my 3,5 and 8 year olds about what happened, it triggered questions and emotions. Some questions were easy to answer, some where not.
We need to teach our children that they need to take the initiative to change the pattern, to step up!
Start at a young age, read stories about Rosa Parks, about Martin Luther King. They will not ask a lot of questions when they are 3 but they will start understanding that the problem exists and we fight it and we talk about it and when they are 5 it is a great conversation starter.
Be the Change you want to see in the world.
https://youtu.be/whR_JIzknpo
How to talk with your children about racism and police brutality (child-friendly definitions and discussion ideas for parents included in the print book, whi...