12/01/2025
Holiday Stress
The holiday season is one of the busiest and most stressful times of the year. With parties, end of the year recitals and banquets, shopping, cooking, travel, family, the list goes on and on. So, how do you survive it all? You could cancel the whole thing and just stay at home in your jammies until the new year. But if that’s not an option for you, here are some tips to help cut out stress and better enjoy this magical time of year.
1. Keep at home celebrations to a minimum. It’s much easier to be a guest than a host, but if you do plan to have a crowd over keep things simple. Rather than an elaborate table setting, opt for more of a minimal approach. Instead of a fancy meal that you spend days cooking, consider a casual potluck style, or allow close friends/ family members to bring a side or dessert to take some of the load off of you.
2. Plan in advance. When possible, get things in your calendar ahead of time. That way you’re less likely to have a scheduling conflict or feel pulled in too many directions. Of course there will be last minute things that come up, but if you already have your schedule planned it’s easier to see where there’s wiggle room and where there isn’t.
3. It’s okay to say no. It doesn’t make you a grinch if you can’t make it to every single concert, dinner, event, and party. It’s okay to politely decline some offers. Set a limit for yourself and stick to it. Make time for the most important things, but don’t be afraid to say, you just can’t fit it into your schedule. Most people recognize the demands of this time of year, and will be understanding if you have to say no.
4. Make time for down time. Amid the chaos make sure you take time to slow down. It’s important to have a night off now and then to refill your cup and just enjoy a quiet, no-stress evening. It will give you time to appreciate the joy that can exist this time of year. Take a walk in the snow, breathe deeply, lay under the tree and enjoy the lights, read an inspirational Christmas story as a family.
5. Avoid family tension when possible. When family gets together there are bound to be little squabbles here and there, but you don’t have to let it ruin your holiday. You can’t control others, but you can control your reaction to them. Don’t sweat the small stuff, most people have the best of intentions even if their comments come across as offensive. Take a breath and remind yourself of that. If you see tensions getting high take a break, get some air, refill the eggnog. And plan a polite exit strategy in advance for situations where you know things could get out of hand quickly.
6. Take good care of yourself. Make time for healthy meals in between the decadent party food, stay hydrated, get enough sleep, and listen to your intuition. If you ignore what your body is telling you, you’ll be burned out before you know it.
Remember, the holidays only come around once a year. With these tips hopefully you can enjoy this time of year instead of dreading it. But if you find that you just can’t shake the stress and it is interfering with your life please reach out. Talk to a trusted friend, take time out to recover, or talk to a therapist who can help you learn skills to cope. Have a safe and happy holiday season.