01/22/2026
As a kid, my dad felt like Superman.â¨Larger than life. Invincible. Strong. Funny. Loyal. Loving.
I watched him turn raw materials into things built to last with his bare hands.â¨I watched him outperform people half his age without breaking a sweat.â¨I watched him love my mom loudly, proudly, unapologetically â the kind of love other people felt in their bodies just being near it.
I watched him step into fatherhood like it was sacred.â¨He gave himself to it completely. Every ounce of time, energy, and effort.
And then I watched him break.
I watched him get pulled under by the relentless waves of grief after losing my mom to cancer.â¨I watched him struggle to stay alive.â¨I watched him wish for the pain to end â and wrestle with whether ending his life might be the only way to make that happen.
I watched him wrestle with God.â¨I watched him battle darkness in a way that made me wonder, for the first time in my life, if this was something he wouldnât survive.
Had he finally met something stronger than him?
And then I watched him rise.
Not all at once.â¨Not heroically.â¨But inch by inch.
I remember the moment I realized he wanted to die.â¨And then the moment he decided he wanted to live.
What came next was the greatest display of strength Iâve ever witnessed.
He dug himself out of hell and started crawling toward the light.â¨And then â he told the truth.
All of it.â¨The grief.â¨The mental health battles.â¨The suicidal thoughts.
He healed out loud. And he didnât care who saw.
My dad is as blue-collar as it gets â a self-employed roofer, lives in the woods, hunts and fishes, teaches mountain-man survival skills for fun. In his world, men donât talk about feelings. They grit their teeth, carry the load, and bleed quietly.
Watching him stand in front of his community and tell the truth changed everything.
I watched it heal him.â¨I watched it crack something open in the people around him.â¨I watched others find the courage to take off the mask and finally speak what theyâd been carrying in silence.
Thatâs when I learned what real strength looks like.
I watched my dad start to change the world.
Thanks to earth angel / ghostwriter his story is now a book.