Leslie Hershberger

Leslie Hershberger Mentor, facilitator, guide: 2nd half of life, embodied transformation, Enneagram, 3 Centered knowing

Hi everyone, our retreat has sold out, but we'll be doing a waiting list so we encourage you to reach out to Mia if you'...
12/13/2025

Hi everyone, our retreat has sold out, but we'll be doing a waiting list so we encourage you to reach out to Mia if you're interested so we can put your name on the list. Thank you for your interest in this topic and as always, a gift you can give yourself are practices that nourish presence. It is a practice.

When we stop practicing, the old ways and old meanings return. We really do change on the inside when we have a consistent practice. My website is full of free resources and there's so many good meditations and practices out there.

Your type and your parts WILL show up. And. With a Pause, you can meet those parts with compassion (welcome to the human race) and then surrender to a much larger, more expansive "field of compassion" that is higher than your small self.

And in the spirit of these times, with breath and intention, offer it to others. A world starved of meaning and connection needs spiritual nutrients. Good psychology is a start for self awareness. Spirituality says we're much larger than all your parts and type patterns and deeply and irrevocably interconnected.

Thank you all for the inner work you do.

🌀 Only 3 Spots Left: February Retreat - https://mailchi.mp/lesliehershberger/february-retreat-only-3-spots-leftJoin The ...
12/10/2025

🌀 Only 3 Spots Left: February Retreat - https://mailchi.mp/lesliehershberger/february-retreat-only-3-spots-left
Join The Inner Shift:

A 3-day immersive, in-person intensive:
Enneagram + Internal Family Systems
3 Centered Presence along with practices to take home with you.

We have just a few spots left. If this work is calling to you, we encourage you to register soon—we’d hate for you to miss it.

Aging parents. Mortality. The loss of a friend, sibling, parent. A fractured relationship. Estrangement. A health challe...
10/23/2025

Aging parents. Mortality. The loss of a friend, sibling, parent. A fractured relationship. Estrangement. A health challenge that turns your world upside down. Economic insecurity. Spiritual restlessness. Mental health challenges. Changing bodies.

Adult children who were once our babies, grade schoolers and teens are forging their adult lives, some are having their own kids and making decisions in a challenging, time so different from the one where we raised them.

All of these are thresholds and some destabilize us.

It's not a disaster although it can turn our world upside down.

It's the human condition.

It's a psychological invitation to do some shadow work.

It's a spiritual invitation to deepen.
To let go of the energetic drain of believing we can somehow control life's inevitabilities.

And then there's the D word which people are absolutely terrified to say out loud. Cognitively, we know we're going to die. But my God, this is an incredibly death avoidant culture.

(When I first told a friend, I was going to start working with people in the 2nd half of life, she said, don't call it that no one will come. We sold out our class and Tyler's Summit has almost 5000 people registered so clearly, people want to actually talk about this!)

Each Enneagram type tends to have their most tenacious stuff come up in this time of life.

All the stuff you believed you worked out in the 1st half will come roaring in in new layers in the 2nd half.

The Enneagram is not about identifying with our type.
It's about dis-identifying.
The 2nd half of life gives us all sorts of opportunities to let go, let go again and let go again.
There's a lot of creative life force sitting underneath that Pause when you let go.

A huge thanks to Tyler Zach, who put together the EnneaSummit: Midlife and Beyond. He's put an inordinate amount of work into it.

To watch today's lineup for free: https://tinyurl.com/55fw4rbv

All access link for lifetime access to the interviews, presentations and Sage panels:
https://tinyurl.com/4xjeddd6

He reached out and invited Clare Pizzimenti Loughrige and me to do a Q & A tonight at 8 PM ET.
Link for the live YouTube (which I've never done before!):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMooi2avPx4

Hope to see you tonight!

Day: Thursday, October 23rdTime: 7:00pm CST (8:00pm EST)We’re going live with Clare Loughrige and Leslie Hershberger—two of the most trusted voices in the En...

A 3-Day Enneagram and Internal Family Systems In-Person Intensive in Cincinnati Feb 19–22, 2026 | Cincinnati, OHBringing...
10/08/2025

A 3-Day Enneagram and Internal Family Systems In-Person Intensive in Cincinnati Feb 19–22, 2026 | Cincinnati, OH
Bringing together Enneagram + IFS + Contemplative Presence

The Inner Shift is a 3-day Enneagram and Internal Family Systems (IFS) immersive designed to move you from Enneagram and IFS concepts into lived transformation in all 3 Centers: Head, Heart, Body/Moving.

You’ll experience presence, practice and integration in a grounded, supportive space.

Facilitated by Leslie Hershberger and Joan Ryan JD, master Enneagram teachers and IFS practitioners with over 50 years of combined experience, you’ll be guided through somatic practices, parts work, and real-time group process that create grounded presence, clarity and practice-focused change.

We are asking that participants apply to the retreat. Why?

Completing this application helps us to understand your experience with inner work in the Enneagram and/or in IFS and/or Meditation or Contemplative Practice.

While we provide Enneagram prep work for people new to the Enneagram and IFS prep work for those new to the IFS, space is intentionally limited to ensure each participant has the opportunity for meaningful engagement.

A frequently asked question has been: Do I have to be a counselor, therapist or spiritual director to participate?

Not at all! You may be a parent, a partner, a friend or someone who wants to live more consciously in the world and the field of relationships. Your level of intention and experience with one of these modalities is what matters most.

Early bird pricing is now available until November 30 and you can make a $200 deposit to secure your price before it increases.

https://lesliehershberger.com/the-inner-shift-experience/

To register: https://innershiftexperience.com/sales

About Joan Ryan, my friend, colleague and Inner Shift Co-Teacher   Joan Ryan is an internationally recognized Enneagram expert whose Enneagram work is grounded firmly within the Narrative Enneagram methods. When I certified in the Narrative Enneagram, Joan was one of my teachers. With time, we beca...

We are in times of what Cynthia Bourgeault calls, “radical diminishment” where the highest values we hold dear are reduc...
09/26/2025

We are in times of what Cynthia Bourgeault calls, “radical diminishment” where the highest values we hold dear are reduced to toxic levels fractiousness, fear and anger in the collective atmosphere.

There is much we can do, but as one client said,

"THE PAUSE is deceptively simple, right in front of our nose and what is most needed.”

Together, we can consciously practice a Pause and offer something different when we show up in the world.

I have 2 offerings to help you cultivate your capacity to Pause and choose a more conscious response in our beleaguered world.

I currently meet with people on Wednesday mornings for a Contemplative Pause at no charge:https://lesliehershberger.com/weekly-practice/

The iAwake team and I spent over a year creating personalized meditations for each Enneagram type.

Meditation and/or Contemplative Prayer is crucial for these times, but so many tell me it is hard for them.

I wanted to create something for you to cultivate the ability to return to Presence when you feel knocked off center whether you’re in a difficult conversation, under pressure or on social media.

Given your Enneagram type, you have a different dilemma. You get reactive to different things and different things knock you off center.

For example, 9s check out and numb out in conflict while 8s’ excessive energy gets reactive around the truth (as they see it) and issues of fairness and justice, losing control. In the meantime, 1s devolve into judgmental right/wrong rigidities and lose touch with spacious serenity that lives within.

6s distrust their mind’s own stillness as worst case dominates their thinking, 5s over rely on mental constructs and avoidance of engagement while 7s feel restless, critical and stimulant seeking.

Meanwhile, 3s contract the heart, shut down, work harder on product and performance, 4s are drawn into fluctuating moods and emotions and 2s can’t stay with themselves long enough for fear of touching that inner anxiety and their attention reflexively wanders to others’ needs.

These habits are tenacious. A practice is non-negotiable for resourcing grounded presence which lives inside each of us.

I partnered with old friends John and Pam Dupuy, founders of iAwake Technologies. They create innovative, sound-based tools for people like us who are passionate about offering a more thoughtful conscious response in fractious times.

We got to talking about creating a meditation exclusively for each type.

Enneagram Meditations contains nine guided meditations carefully crafted and led by me, accompanied by the audio sounds of brainwave entrainment wizard Leigh Spusta, which infuse the meditations with additional transformational power and efficacy.

Taking time for meditation or contemplative prayer is not just about inner peace and calm.

It’s about cultivating the ability to center yourself so you can act skillfully when you’re reactive in these times when reactivity is at a peak.

These tracks can be used to aid in one’s psychological self-knowledge and healing.

Even more, they are a tool for spiritual presence that grounds you in something deeper and more expansive than fear, ideology, collective thinking and type-related reactivity.

We had no idea how these would land with people so we tested them out before sharing them with you.

I am happy to report, they are having the impact we’d hoped for:

Highest recommendations! This is up there with the very best if not the very pinnacle of [iAwake] products. – Brian Romine

“The Enneagram Meditations and information tracks were enjoyable and informative.

Leslie’s encyclopedic knowledge on the topic comes through, not in a pedantic or overbearing way, but with just the right nugget of information at the right time.

I have come away from these tracks appreciating the Enneagram as an integrated system of typology that’s much fuller and richer than my understanding of it before. I had lots of ‘aha’ moments as the meditations helped me to see each type and how it operates on the mental, emotional, and physical levels.

I also found myself having greater clarity about what I was doing or how I was reacting to things in the environment. This was due to the meditations giving me more ‘space’ to have the reactions I have based on my type.”

- Greg Skyles

I was especially thrilled to read this one:

“I was delightfully surprised. It is the first time the Enneagram made sense to me.The meditations were well thought out, conveniently short yet powerful.These meditations go beyond stress relief. They provide practical resources for dealing with and understanding people and events.” – M. Halbfish

Click below to purchase the meditation for your type and let me know your thoughts.

And please, take good care of yourself and others. Join me in conscious practice in order to cultivate a more conscious response.
https://tinyurl.com/wyrf74us

My teaching partner for The Contemplative Heart of Thomas Merton this Saturday is Adam Clark, a professor at XU and a co...
09/18/2025

My teaching partner for The Contemplative Heart of Thomas Merton this Saturday is Adam Clark, a professor at XU and a contemplative companion and friend. ⁣⁣⁣
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What I most appreciate about Adam is his clean clarity of perception where he shares wisdom and you don't feel a personal agenda. I'm continually taken aback by it. We're both Enneagram head types and
knowledge is a way to connect through shared meaning.
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Asam he also has a generosity of presence. He listens to something personal and without a lot of words, you feel heard. He often places your inner life within in a larger context and it helps you weave yourself back to the Whole where your dilemma is part of our shared human condition. We're not so special. I love that especially in these times. ⁣⁣⁣
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He challenges me to reflect on how our Contemplative Practice impacts how we bring love, justice and truth to the fractured world around us within the context of our faith tradition. ⁣⁣⁣
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He doesn't overwhelm the group or our friendship with his energy, but invites reflection on things I hadn't considered. ⁣⁣⁣
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Last year, I was going through something painful. On a day he knew would be hard, he sent a text. One line. I was feeling alone as we often do when we're in pain. His thoughtful text felt like a thread that wove me back to the Whole. Then another contemplative compadre checked in. Then another. I'm not alone in my sadness, I thought. ⁣⁣⁣
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Sadness is human, normal and shared. No small thing for this Enneagram 7. ⁣⁣⁣
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He was present when I received an award at XU and I was grateful for that as he represents the best of the Xavier tradition. ⁣⁣⁣
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Join my friend and me on Saturday as we explore the very flawed, human contemplative Merton together. To register, go to

09/17/2025

ONE MORE SPOT AVAILABLE:
Today, my Contemplative Practice group gathered to sit in the Silence in these turbulent times. Some came anxious and left grounded and present. When we go inside ourselves, we encounter ourselves.

Yet our rational, waking mind often filters out parts of ourselves that we can see in others, but we can't see in ourselves.

Much of our collective polarization is because these shadow aspects of ourselves are often projected onto others.

Dream work invites us into greater wholeness. Dreams bypass ego defenses and reveal what lies beneath the surface of consciousness—our fears, desires, shadow aspects, unlived potentials, and even our intuitive wisdom.

Lee Fields and I have one more spot available in our Dream Weaving class that begins in October. You’re welcome to join us!

Knowing your Enneagram type is helpful as it identifies core shadow and projections, but it is not required.

Dreams personalize growth: A Type 2 might have dreams of rejection, exhaustion, anger —revealing repressed needs or over-giving.

The Enneagram gives context: That dream can be seen as an invitation to reclaim boundaries and self-worth.

Together, they guide towards increasing wholeness: You learn to welcome all parts of yourself, not just the ones your type foregrounds in the light of day when your egoic self is alive and well.

You'll have the chance to listen to the symbols and archetypes in the dreams of other people which can evoke a more active dream life inside ourselves.

Link for registration:
https://living-from-the-inside-out.teachable.com/p/dream-weaving

Join us tomorrow in a Contemplative Pause: It's been a turbulent week and in times of turbulence, we're most vulnerable ...
09/17/2025

Join us tomorrow in a Contemplative Pause: It's been a turbulent week and in times of turbulence, we're most vulnerable to what my daughter calls "spinning out" rather than Pausing and turning inward to open ourselves to the living Reality of Something higher and wiser.

During the last week, I hosted a group of Enneagram mentees and one of them is from Barbados. She stayed with me and I saw my country's collective reactivity through her eyes.

The summons toward inner stillness and shared practice rings with deeper urgency.

Join us tomorrow morning if you have the time. We gather at 8:00 AM ET for 30 minutes. (More about the Pause: https://lesliehershberger.com/weekly-practice/)

If you can't join us, we will hold you and those you love in our Contemplative Pause.

Tomorrrows link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5135437720

Photo credit: Murat Kuzhakhmetovr

The Inner Shift Intensive is happening Feb 19–22, 2026 in Cincinnati, OH. It’s a 3-day Enneagram and IFS in-person inten...
08/20/2025

The Inner Shift Intensive is happening Feb 19–22, 2026 in Cincinnati, OH.

It’s a 3-day Enneagram and IFS in-person intensive designed to move you beyond theory into lived transformation.

Facilitated by master teachers Leslie Hershberger and Joan Ryan, who bring over 50 years of combined experience in the Enneagram, IFS and embodied practices.

You’ll be guided into presence, practice and integration inside a grounded, supportive community.

Who it’s for:
• Coaches, therapists, facilitators, guides and practitioners
• Anyone who “does the work” for others and is ready to be held themselves
• Individuals craving embodied integration, not just more information

Why attend:
• A life-defining experience of embodied clarity, presence and integration
• Step out of autopilot and meet yourself more honestly
• Move beyond intellectualizing into lived transformation

What you’ll experience:
• Enneagram panels
• Partner work
• Embodiment practices
• Enneagram + Internal Family Systems (IFS) + 3-centered integration teaching
• Guided inner practices
• Space to rest, reflect and reconnect

📍 Cincinnati, OH
📅 Feb 19–22, 2026
💵 Residential: $1,275–$1,500 | Commuter: $995–$1,200
(Payment plans are available)

Space is intentionally limited. DM SHIFT for more details or go to Stories to apply.

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Blue Ash, OH

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 5pm
Tuesday 9am - 5pm
Wednesday 9am - 5pm
Thursday 9am - 5pm
Friday 9am - 5pm

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