02/20/2026
In addition to just being the tool that it is, clothing is a constant sensory input for many autistic and ADHD kids. If something feels itchy, tight, stiff, or unpredictable, their nervous system can become escalated before the day even begins.
When a child is already internally overwhelmed by discomfort, it doesn’t take much, a transition, a loud classroom, a small frustration, to push them into meltdown. This is not because they’re defiant, but because their system was already overloaded.
Sometimes what looks like behavior is accumulated sensory strain.
Kids will have much better behavior and, more importantly, nervous system regulation, when we shift from “Why won’t you just wear it?” to “What does your nervous system need to feel safe?”
If you want deeper understanding of regulation, autonomy, and how to truly parent the child you have, join us at the free, virtual, Parent the Child You Have Summit on March 13th.
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